How to use a vibrating cock ring with your partner

Also known as penis rings, tension rings, and constriction rings, cock rings fit snugly around the penis.

Wear one and you’re likely to achieve a rock-solid hard-on and be able to fuck for longer than you normally do.

Some guys choose rings that fit just around the shaft and others opt for rings that hug the testicles too.

My lover and I have a couple in our toy box and I’d like to tell you how to use a vibrating cock ring with a partner, based on my experience.

Standard, non-vibrating cock rings grasp the penis and decelerate blood flow, this keeps guys stiffer for longer and can be useful in combatting erectile dysfunction. 

Vibrating cock rings do the same great job, but as the name suggests, they incorporate little vibrators too, which means pulsating pleasure for your cock.

Penis owners get a thrill from vibrating cock rings, but as a vagina owner, I’m over the moon to say I get a kick from them too.

My partner and I both get an extra buzz during sex thanks to him slipping a vibrating cock ring on, and we regularly climax together in a satisfyingly sticky mess. 

When it comes to slipping a ring on it we have found it’s best to do it when the cock is flaccid. It’s easier to ease a cock ring into place if you’re not fighting a raging hard-on to do it.

Lube will help you in your quest too. Choose a quality water-based sex lubricant and thoroughly smother both the ring and cock. 

When the dick is nice and slippery you can place the ring over the tip and slide it down the shaft, all the way to the base.

If your ring is the type that sits on the testicles (dual cock ring) you can ease your balls through first and then gently slide your penis in. 

How to use a vibrating cock ring?

Stimulate the clitors

Like many vagina owners, I don’t always reach orgasm through vaginal penetration alone.

I do like being fucked in the pussy, but thrusts alone don’t always hit the spot. I need a little more, and the best way to make me wet and make me cum is to tease my clit. 

The vibrating cock ring tickles my clitty.

My lover can appreciate the throbbing pulsations of the ring against his penis, and I get to enjoy the clitoral stimulation (provided by the vibrations) as my guy thrusts in and out. 

Stimulate the surrounding areas

I’ve jumped straight to the main event, but vibrating cock rings can be used in other ways as well as just for full-on vaginal sex, and when it comes to foreplay a cock ring can do wonders as a warm-up.

The compact gadgets pack a punch, so you can use the ring to stimulate the genitals and surrounding areas. 

We use the ring on each other and not just to rev up the pussy and cock.

Other hot spots include the back of the neck and the nipples. The vibrations tease and tantalize and can really get us both in the mood before we jump on each other. 

Hold the vibrating cock ring in your hand

You can also pep up a run-of-mill hand job by popping your fingers through a ring or holding the ring in your hand. Grasp your lover’s cock gently and watch his face contort with pleasure as he revels in the hedonism of a pulsing tug. 

You can also slip the vibrating ring over his member and jerk him off at the same time.

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The combination of rhythmical pulsations combined with the human touch – stroking, caressing, carefully jerking, etc should be enough to take your man to orgasm city. 

Use a vibrating cock ring during fingering

We switched things around recently and my partner used the cock ring while fingering my coochie.

He gently flicked my bean and slid his fingers in and out while holding the ring close to my lips and clit. It felt rather intense and before long I found myself begging for his cock in my hole. 

Learn 27 fingering techniques and pair those with a vibrating cock ring.

Use a vibrating cock ring during oral

Hands are good but lips shouldn’t be dismissed.

Oral sex is high on our list of ways to have fun, and we can use the cock ring for that too. We both get plenty of pleasure when he slips the vibrating cock ring on and then goes down on me.

I like to return the favor (giving head turns me on and my other half is always up for slipping his dick into my mouth).

We recently experimented by using a cock ring during that too.

So that’s a tick in the box for vaginal penetration, hand jobs, fingering, and oral.

Expand the anal play using a vibrating cock ring

But the versatile vibrating cock ring can also be used for backdoor fun, so if you are into anal get ready for a buzz up your butthole.

Whether you’re a penis owner pleasuring a vagina owner or a penis owner getting it on with a fellow penis owner, the cock ring can enhance bum fun. 

If you’re a vagina owner and like the idea of pegging your partner you can wear one of the strap-on dildos and add the vibrating cock ring.

If you are using hollow dildos the toy will buzz from base to tip and boost orgasmic fun. 

As will all sex toys, don’t be afraid to experiment and explore to get the most from your vibrating cock ring.

It’s a great way to enhance foreplay and boost oral, vaginal, and anal sex.

You can use the toy solo and may want to try it on your own before you get to it with your lover. 

When you’re playing together take your time and try different positions to find out what works well for you.

Vibrating cock rings can take sexual play from average to awesome and that’s why I like it when he puts a (vibrating) cock ring on it. 

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