How to use nipple clamps for solo and partner play

Choc-full of nerve endings, nipples are highly sensitive and can be a great source of pleasure. You can lick them, suck them, tweak and caress them, but if you want to get down to some serious nipple play you will need to get your hands on a pair of nipple clamps.

In this guide, I’ll tell you how to use nipple clamps, both for solo play and for partner play.

Introduction to nipple clamps

Both vagina and penis owners can use the versatile toys, and you can play solo with your nipple clamps or share the pleasure (and pain) with your partner.

The nipple clamps come in various designs and stimulate your nips by gently squeezing or brutally biting, depending on how intensely you like to play.  

Simply wearing nipple clamps can make you feel erotic, but the real fun begins when you slip off the pincers.

The blood rushes back into your nips and the sensitivity levels hike astronomically. Expect pert, bullet-like nipples that are full of feeling. 

Prepare the nipples

Whether you’re flying solo or experimenting with a partner, prepare the nipples before you start clamping. Get comfy by finding a private place where disruptions are minimal and get in the mood as you normally would by engaging in foreplay. 

My lover and I decided to try out nipple clamps a couple of years back and I will put my hand up and say I felt nervous. I have sensitive nipples at the best of times and the thought of clamping them between two metal claws filled me with trepidation. 

My partner playfully pulled out the nipple clamps and teased me clipping them open and shut in front of my face, telling me how much he was going to enjoy playing with my tits and clinching my nips for his pleasure.

We didn’t dive straight in, instead, we warmed up with kisses and caresses.

Whenever I’m trying something new, I find it works wonders if we’re both fully aroused before we go for it. 

Placing the nipple clamps

If you like you can use water-based sex lubricant to lessen the discomfort, and when you’re ready gently squeeze the clamps so the pincers open.

Get the nipple clamps in the right spot (just above the nipple but steering clear of the areola). Once in place release the pincers and watch as they slowly seize the nipples in their tense grip. 

About adjustable nipple clamps

Adjustable nipple clamps are the way to go if you’re new to nipple play or relatively inexperienced.

These types of clamps are easy to use if you’re playing alone or having fun with a partner. You choose the level of intensity but it’s a good idea to start with a light touch and slowly increase the pressure levels.

This will help you to get used to the sensation and enjoy the stimulation without feeling too overwhelmed or uncomfortable.

Removing the nipple clamps

Removing the clamps can be a game in itself. If you’re playing alone tease yourself by gently tugging at the pincers before removing them.

If your partner is taking the clamps off, they can tease you by releasing and then closing the pincers before removing them completely.

Playing with nipple clamps alone

Once exposed your nipples will be super sensitive so take the opportunity to gently stroke and caress your titties and nipple area.

You can combine this with masturbation by fingering yourself or making sure you have one of your favorite toys to hand.

Learn 27 fingering techniques.

Rub and tweak your nipples while aiming the clitoral suction vibrator.

For example, if you use one of the panty vibrators you can lie back and play with your nips while the device pulsates and teases your clit.  Say hello to a powerful sex combo that should reward you with a memorable orgasm.

Partner play with nipple clamps

If you prefer to let your partner, take the lead, ask them to apply the nipple clamps, let them tease you until you’re ready to burst, and then remove the clamps.

Touch your titties while your lover fucks you (or they can play with your nips while screwing you) either way you can revel in the heightened pleasure of genital and nipple play in one. 

There are plents of ways to take advantage of the nipples that are freshly out of nipple clamps and full of feeling.

Think kissing, licking, gently biting, sucking, tapping (with hands or whips, riding crops and & canes), teasing with ice or gently warmed spoons, applying stimulating sex lubricants or tasting flavored sex lubricants of your nipples, applying nipple suckers and nipple pumps,...

Other types of nipple clamps

There are other clamps available including non-adjustable ones (attach to the nips and suck up the intensity)!

Advanced players might want to try clover nipple clamps (also known as butterfly or Japanese clamps).

Originally designed to keep fabric taut the spring-loaded clamps boast a tight grip and if you give them a yank they won’t fall off – they will just clamp your nips tighter. 

Kinky things to try with nipple clamps

Pull on the clover clamps yourself using a chain or invite your lover to take control.

Delve into power exchange by attaching clamps to your partner’s nipples and taking them for a walk around the room.

Force them down on all fours for added humiliation.

These types of clamps also lend themselves well to hanging weights. Attach a couple and enjoy the delicious combination of agony and ecstasy. 

If you’re using nipple clamps as part of your masturbation routine, you’ll probably need to explore to find the best way to make yourself cum.

If you’re using clamps with your lover you will need to talk things through first – when it comes to shared sex and kink it’s always essential to communicate openly.

Discuss expectations, set boundaries, confirm consent, and identify safe words. If you enter into play in an SSC (safe, sane, and consensual) way you are more likely to get something from the deal. 

Timing is important too.

Nipple clamps are best when enjoyed as short-term fun.

Don’t start clamping for days on end or you could damage with damaged nips or reduced feeling.

If you’re on your own you can monitor pleasure levels and tweak the clamps as necessary.

If you’re playing with your other half make sure you check in to see if they are ok and having a good time. 

If you’re in need of bedroom boost and want to try out something fun nipple clamps could be the perfect addition to your toy box.

Enhance your sexual pleasure and see if you can reach your very first nipplegasm – once you do, you’re bound to be back for more. 

Learn more ways to play with the nipples or explore nipple clamps.

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