You asked:

I’m looking for a high-quality Bluetooth vibrator for public play with my partner — something she can wear while trying to hide her reactions. But I’ve heard some Bluetooth toys are pretty bad: disconnecting, shutting off, weak vibrations, or apps that barely work. Any advice on a reliable one that doesn’t have these issues?

Grace:

The Lovense Lush 3 and Ferri are great options (depending on whether you want internal or external), and the Lovense Remote app works well. The only downside is that they rely completely on the app.

If you want something with both app control and a physical remote, the We-Vibe options — the Jive 2 and the Moxie+ — are worth a look. They’re app-compatible but also come with a small remote, which I find much easier and more fun to use. The app is still there if you want it, but you’re not dependent on it.