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Sincerely Lace Collar & Leash

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This comfortable padded collar, made of soft, inviting fabric of fine lace, fits perfectly around... Read more

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This comfortable padded collar, made of soft, inviting fabric of fine lace, fits perfectly around most any size neck.

Secret Kisses Lace Collar features:

  • Materials: 28% polyester, 25% polyethylene, 22% nickel-free metal, 13% polyurethane, 5% hook and loop, 5% polypropylene, 2% spandex

Size and material:

  • Chain length: 30" / 76.2 cm
  • Minimum collar size: 15.5" / 39.4 cm
  • Maximum collar size: 22.5" / 57.2 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup



Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this collar for?

The Secret Kisses Lace Collar is ideal for:

  • BDSM beginners exploring power dynamics and looking for soft, non-intimidating restraint options.
  • Fashion-forward kinksters who want a collar that doubles as a statement piece in the bedroom or out.
  • Couples wanting to explore fantasy play without going full gear—this lace collar strikes the perfect balance between elegance and edge.
  • Those seeking sensory play through the combination of soft textures with the psychological thrill of being collared or leading.

How to use the Secret Kisses Lace Collar?

  1. Adjust the fit by wrapping the collar around the neck and securing it using the hook-and-loop closure for snug, comfortable wear.
  2. Attach the leash using the metal clip—great for visual stimulation and gentle leading or power play.
  3. Set the mood by integrating it into dress-up scenarios, service submission, or teasing dominance/submission play.
  4. Communicate boundaries clearly pre-play—decide on safe words and read each other's energy and consent.

Great positions to try:

  • Kneeling in front of a partner: Enhances power exchange and visual intimacy.
  • Doggy style: Allows the leash to add control and directional stimulation with minimal effort.
  • Over-the-lap: Great for light spanking or praise play while the collar reinforces the dynamic.

How to clean and care for the Secret Kisses Lace Collar?

  • Cleaning: Spot-clean with a damp cloth and gentle soap; avoid submerging in water due to the mix of materials including metal and hook-and-loop fastenings.
  • Drying: Air-dry flat to maintain shape and prevent damage to the lace or hardware.
  • Lubricant compatibility: While lube typically won’t be used on a collar, keep it away from body oils and lubes to extend product life.
  • Storage: Store in a cool, dry place, hung flat or gently coiled; avoid folding tightly to prevent creasing or misshaping the lace.

Collar practical use info:

  • Versatility: Can be worn as part of an outfit, lingerie ensemble, or intimate roleplay—adds flair and fantasy to any scenario.
  • Functionality: Lightweight enough for extended wear, yet sturdy for light pulling or leading.
  • Comfort: Padded interior and soft lace reduce chafing, making it beginner-friendly for longer sessions.

Additional information:

  • Couples’ communication: Perfect as an introduction to consensual power play—great starting point to talk about kink interests.
  • Sensory appeal: Offers tactile delight with lace, metal, and vinyl-like finishes in one piece.
  • Fashion cross-over: Looks chic layered with lingerie or outfit accessories—it doesn’t scream “adult toy.”

Special considerations when using Secret Kisses Lace Collar:

  • Mobility requirements: Partner may need to secure or adjust collar—ideal when there’s easy reach to the neck area.
  • Dexterity: Requires light grasp to fasten or remove the hook-and-loop closure.
  • Reach: Designed to be worn around the neck—ensure the wearer is comfortable with weight and leash pull.
  • Charging: Not applicable—this is a non-powered product.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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