This comfortable padded collar, made of soft, inviting fabric of fine lace, fits perfectly around most any size neck.
Secret Kisses Lace Collar features:
- Materials: 28% polyester, 25% polyethylene, 22% nickel-free metal, 13% polyurethane, 5% hook and loop, 5% polypropylene, 2% spandex
Size and material:
- Chain length: 30" / 76.2 cm
- Minimum collar size: 15.5" / 39.4 cm
- Maximum collar size: 22.5" / 57.2 cm
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup
Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.
Who is this collar for?
The Secret Kisses Lace Collar is ideal for:
- BDSM beginners exploring power dynamics and looking for soft, non-intimidating restraint options.
- Fashion-forward kinksters who want a collar that doubles as a statement piece in the bedroom or out.
- Couples wanting to explore fantasy play without going full gear—this lace collar strikes the perfect balance between elegance and edge.
- Those seeking sensory play through the combination of soft textures with the psychological thrill of being collared or leading.
How to use the Secret Kisses Lace Collar?
- Adjust the fit by wrapping the collar around the neck and securing it using the hook-and-loop closure for snug, comfortable wear.
- Attach the leash using the metal clip—great for visual stimulation and gentle leading or power play.
- Set the mood by integrating it into dress-up scenarios, service submission, or teasing dominance/submission play.
- Communicate boundaries clearly pre-play—decide on safe words and read each other's energy and consent.
Great positions to try:
- Kneeling in front of a partner: Enhances power exchange and visual intimacy.
- Doggy style: Allows the leash to add control and directional stimulation with minimal effort.
- Over-the-lap: Great for light spanking or praise play while the collar reinforces the dynamic.
How to clean and care for the Secret Kisses Lace Collar?
- Cleaning: Spot-clean with a damp cloth and gentle soap; avoid submerging in water due to the mix of materials including metal and hook-and-loop fastenings.
- Drying: Air-dry flat to maintain shape and prevent damage to the lace or hardware.
- Lubricant compatibility: While lube typically won’t be used on a collar, keep it away from body oils and lubes to extend product life.
- Storage: Store in a cool, dry place, hung flat or gently coiled; avoid folding tightly to prevent creasing or misshaping the lace.
Collar practical use info:
- Versatility: Can be worn as part of an outfit, lingerie ensemble, or intimate roleplay—adds flair and fantasy to any scenario.
- Functionality: Lightweight enough for extended wear, yet sturdy for light pulling or leading.
- Comfort: Padded interior and soft lace reduce chafing, making it beginner-friendly for longer sessions.
Additional information:
- Couples’ communication: Perfect as an introduction to consensual power play—great starting point to talk about kink interests.
- Sensory appeal: Offers tactile delight with lace, metal, and vinyl-like finishes in one piece.
- Fashion cross-over: Looks chic layered with lingerie or outfit accessories—it doesn’t scream “adult toy.”
Special considerations when using Secret Kisses Lace Collar:
- Mobility requirements: Partner may need to secure or adjust collar—ideal when there’s easy reach to the neck area.
- Dexterity: Requires light grasp to fasten or remove the hook-and-loop closure.
- Reach: Designed to be worn around the neck—ensure the wearer is comfortable with weight and leash pull.
- Charging: Not applicable—this is a non-powered product.