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Special Edition New Comers Strap On Set

$75.00

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The velvet-texture harness’s adjustable nylon straps ensure a perfect fit up to 72” (183 cm)... Read more

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The velvet-texture harness’s adjustable nylon straps ensure a perfect fit up to 72” (183 cm) hips, while padded front and back panels protect your sensitive areas during vigorous play. 

This set includes a slim, 5.25" silicone dildo perfect for exploring, and secures via an interchangeable 1.25" rubber O-Ring.

A built-in pocket in the front panel makes space for your favorite bullet vibe (not included).

The harness is machine washable making cleanup a breeze.

Harness & dildo set features:

  • Materials: polypropylene, polyester, polyurethane foam, hook and loop, ABS plastic, nitrile O-ring, body-safe silicone dildo
  • Can be used hands-free after initial placement
  • Dildo included

Size and material:

  • Dildo length: 5.25" / 13.3 cm
  • Interchangeable rubber O-Ring 1.25" / 3.2 cm
  • 4-way adjustable harness fits up to 72" / 183 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup

Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there. Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this harness & dildo set for?

This harness & dildo set is ideal for:

  • People looking for strap-on basics—a solid and accessible kit for first-timers or occasional users.
  • Folks with ED or who experience premature ejaculation, looking for ways to prolong partner penetration or try something new.
  • Partners exploring gender-affirming intimacy—especially affirming for vulva-owners wanting to penetrate their partner.
  • Couples exploring pegging or role reversal with a non-intimidating, beginner-friendly size.

How to use the harness & dildo set?

  1. Adjust the harness to comfortably fit your hips and thighs using the 4-way adjustable straps. Ensure it’s snug but not too tight.
  2. Insert the dildo through the front O-Ring (already attached to the harness). Make sure it's centered and secure.
  3. Add optional stimulation by placing a bullet vibrator (not included) inside the front panel pocket.
  4. Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo to reduce friction and increase comfort.
  5. Once positioned, check that everything feels good and allows movement. You’re ready to play!

Great positions to try:

  • Missionary style: Face-to-face connection and easy angle adjustments.
  • From behind (doggy or spooning): Great for depth control with less eye contact—perfect for fantasy exploration.
  • On top (rider variation): Partner sits or kneels while the wearer lies back, offering control to the receiving partner.

How to clean and care for the harness & dildo set?

  • Harness: Remove the dildo and O-ring, then machine wash the harness on a gentle cycle. Let it air dry completely.
  • Dildo: Wash with warm water and mild soap or use a body-safe toy cleaner. Rinse thoroughly and pat dry.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Use water-based lubricant only with the silicone dildo to preserve the material.
  • Storage: Store components separately in a cool, dry place. Avoid direct sunlight and don’t store the dildo touching other silicone toys.

Harness & dildo set practical use info:

  • Can be used hands-free once the harness is properly adjusted and dildo is secured.
  • Dildo is included, making this a convenient all-in-one kit for play right out of the box.
  • Helpful for folks with limited hand mobility who want assistance with penetration.

Additional information:

  • May help folks who experience erectile dysfunction, early ejaculation, or difficulty maintaining an erection during sex.
  • Can provide affirming experiences for trans or nonbinary users looking for more control or alignment with how they want to experience their body during sex.

Special considerations when using harness & dildo set:

  • Mobility and flexibility: Wearers will need dexterity and reach to put on the harness, adjust it, and position the dildo securely.

User experience tips:

  • Warm the dildo under lukewarm water before use—it mimics body temperature for a more lifelike experience.
  • Trim pubic hair or wear under tight-fitting underwear when placing and adjusting the harness to avoid tugging or discomfort.
  • If the O-ring feels too tight or loose, consider swapping it—the ring is interchangeable and sizing options can help with comfort and toy fit.
  • Practice wearing the harness solo before couples play to get familiar with the fit and adjustability.
  • Try using a small bullet vibe in the built-in pocket to add external stimulation for both partners.
  • For longer sessions, use a towel or cushion beneath the harness base to reduce front or pelvic pressure.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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