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SS Em.Ex. Fit Harness

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit. The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping... Read more

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit.

The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping accessories firmly secure.

Durable elastic waistband and nitrile (rubber) O-ring.

Interior fabric panels secure toys and provide support.

Designed with (2) bullet pockets to provide extra stimulation.

Wicking material keeps moisture under control.

EmEx features:

  • Materials: polyester, nylon, elastane, nitrile O-ring
  • Fit style

Size and material:

  • Sizes: XS – XXXL
  • Built-in nitrile O-ring diameter: 1.5" / 3.81 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular

Makes a frequent appearance—your go-to for solo or partnered fun.
Performs well, consistently satisfying, and fits many moods.

Who is this harness for?

The EmEx harness is ideal for:

  • Folks exploring penetrative play with dildos or interchangeable toys—whether solo or with a partner.
  • People with erectile dysfunction or limited stamina looking for supportive, pleasure-forward alternatives.
  • Those with limited mobility or hand strength who want a stable, secure toy-mounting option.
  • BDSM or power play enthusiasts who want a reliable piece of gear that’s ready for rougher sessions.

How to use the EmEx?

  1. Choose and insert your toy: Select a dildo or plug with a flared base that fits the 1.5" nitrile O-ring and insert it from inside the harness panel, securing it snugly.
  2. Step into the harness or pull it up like underwear. Adjust until the waistband feels snug but not tight.
  3. Optional: Insert bullets into the two internal stimulation pockets for added pleasure.
  4. Position the toy toward your preferred angle or height using interior straps or external positioning.
  5. Play! Explore positions and movement that feel good—make sure the harness and toy stay secured with body motion.

Great positions to try:

  • Standing doggy: Ideal for those with better lower-body control or using a firm toy for thrusting.
  • Missionary: Great for slower, eye-contact-heavy intimacy or when including bullet play.
  • Seated lap play: Try sitting in a sturdy chair while your partner straddles you, maximizing intimacy and control.

How to clean and care for the EmEx?

  • Cleaning: Handwash or machine wash on gentle with cold water. Use mild, unscented detergent. Air dry.
  • Toy compatibility: The O-ring fits standard flared-base toys up to 1.5" in diameter—be sure they’re fully cleaned after use.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Pair with water-based lubricants for use with your insertable toys to preserve material quality.
  • Storage: Store flat in a dry, cool drawer or hang in breathable pouch; keep toys detached for longevity.

Harness practical use info:

  • Versatility: Suitable for all-gender wear, adaptable to both solo and partnered scenarios.
  • Support: Fabric panel provides a smooth interior surface that holds toys in place securely.
  • Accessibility: Quality stretch material accommodates many body shapes while allowing relatively hands-free operation.

Additional information:

  • Decreased sensation: Harnesses like EmEx allow for penetrative action without relying on erections—ideal in many physical situations.
  • Vaginal dryness: Lubricated insertable toys combined with EmEx’s snug fit can minimize discomfort or friction.
  • Premature ejaculation: Lets users continue penetrative pleasure after orgasm or during a refractory period.

Special considerations when using EmEx:

  • Mobility requirements: You'll need dexterity to step into or pull up the harness and adjust toy positioning.
  • Dexterity: Users need to maneuver the toy into the O-ring and may need assistance securing it firmly.
  • Flexibility: Some motion and flexibility is needed for getting into and out of the harness depending on the fit.

User experience tips:

  • Test fit before play: Try the harness with your preferred toy in a private setting to ensure comfort and control.
  • Warm toys before insertion: Run dildos or plugs under warm water for 1–2 minutes to ease insertion and enhance realism.
  • Try layered stimulation: Slip in bullet vibes before wearing to amplify your experience during movement or pressure.
  • Don’t over-lube: While lube helps, too much can cause the toy to shift—use it mindfully to maintain control.
  • Hair management: If you're wearing the harness on bare skin, trimming pubic hair might enhance comfort and reduce tugging.
  • Solo practice: Try the harness without a partner the first time to get a feel for weight, movement, and toy placement.

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We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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