Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness

The Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness is a premium strap-on solution designed for comfort, control, and intimate connection. Its innovative full-back style cradles the body with padded support, while fully adjustable straps at the waist and thighs ensure a snug, custom fit for all body types.

Crafted from high-quality leatherette and metal, this harness allows direct skin contact with your dildo—heightening both sensation and intimacy during play.

Compatible with all Strap-On-Me memory-shape dildos, it empowers couples to explore pegging, power dynamics, and hands-free pleasure with ease and style.

The minimalist yet secure design makes this harness a must-have for beginners and seasoned strap-on users alike.

Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness features:

• Universal dildo compatibility (with O-ring style design)
• Padded full-back strap for added comfort and support
• Adjustable waist and thigh straps for a customized fit
• Designed for secure skin-to-dildo contact
• Compatible with all Strap-On-Me memory-shape dildos
• Sleek, modern style in black leatherette
• Ideal for pegging, role play, and strap-on intimacy

Size and material:

• One-size-fits-most (adjustable at waist and legs)
• Material: 92% Polyurethane (leatherette), 5% Silicone, 3% Metal
• O-Ring diameter: Fits most standard and Strap-On-Me dildos

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Who is this harness for?

The Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness is ideal for:

• Couples exploring pegging for the first time or deepening their connection through role reversal.
• Lovers of strap-on and power play who want a secure, skin-close fit to maximize control and sensation transfer.
• Gender-affirming users seeking gear that supports identity expression and intimate confidence.
• Anyone looking for body-inclusive design—thanks to the highly adjustable fit and padded comfort.

How to use the Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness?

1. Choose your dildo: Select a compatible dildo with a flared base to fit through the O-ring.
2. Insert your dildo through the center O-ring, ensuring it's snug and facing the correct direction.
3. Step into the harness or pull it up around your hips like underwear.
4. Tighten the straps at the waist and thighs for a secure, comfortable fit.
5. Check alignment: The dildo should rest closely against your pelvis with no major gaps or shifting.

Great positions to try:

• Doggy style: Perfect for deep penetration and full-body rhythm.
• Missionary (receiver on back): Allows for eye contact and emotional intimacy during thrusting.
• Seated straddle: The wearer sits while the partner straddles, giving full control and closeness.

How to clean and care for the Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness?

• Cleaning: Wipe the leatherette straps with a damp cloth and mild soap. Avoid full submersion.
• O-Ring care: Clean any detachable silicone or metal parts with warm water and toy cleaner.
• Drying: Air dry fully before storage, especially padded areas.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use water-based lube to prevent material damage and staining.
• Storage: Store flat or hanging in a dry, cool place away from heat and direct sunlight.

Harness practical use info:

• Versatility: Works with most dildos that have a flared base and are O-ring compatible.
• Control: Direct body contact provides enhanced feedback and precise thrust control.
• Comfort: The padded full-back strap reduces pressure and allows longer wear during sessions.
• Adjustability: Suitable for most body sizes with a wide range of strap flexibility.

Additional information:

• Decreased sensation: Direct base-to-skin fit can enhance sensation and responsiveness for the wearer.
• Vaginal dryness: Make sure the dildo is well-lubed and use water-based lube for comfort and safety.
• Anal play/pegging: Partner using the harness should communicate clearly with receiver about pressure and angle.

Special considerations when using Strap-on-Me Desirous Harness:

• Mobility requirements: Wearer should be able to step into or fasten thigh straps comfortably.
• Dexterity: Requires the ability to adjust multiple straps for a secure fit.
• Partner spacing: Due to dildo positioning, partners may need to adjust angles or use pillows/supports.
• Storage space: Can be folded flat, but allow room for padded back to retain shape and support.