You asked:
I'm interested in trying out remote controlled vibrators, particularly for discreet use in public settings. Can anyone recommend a strong yet quiet remote controlled vibrator that works well from a distance?
Grace:
Both We-Vibe and Lovense are top contenders in this category, with Lovense often preferred for their superior app.
However, many of We-Vibe’s app-compatible toys also include a separate remote control, which adds flexibility. We-Vibe's motors are typically quieter, making them my first recommendation for public play.
I suggest starting with the We-Vibe Moxie or We-Vibe Moxie+. If you’re okay with solely using app control, the We-Vibe Jive or Lovense Lush 3 are also great options. For more detailed comparisons of their apps, feel free to check out my guide.
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Grace Selena (she/they) is a queer, non-binary writer from Melbourne, Australia. She has been talking about sex toys online for almost a decade, with a collection now nearing the thousands.
Her popular blog, Princess Previews, has been ranked by Kinkly and Molly's Daily Kiss as one of the best places on the internet to find reviews of adult products, and they have also contributed their thoughts to publications such as BedBible, Sexual Health Magazine and O.School.
In her spare time she helps run the Alliance of Independent Sex Toy Testers, and can often be found in her garden with her cat, Crumpet, or tweeting at @PrincessPreview.