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Howdy folks, I’ve got a partner (F, I’m M) who’s getting really interested in DP, and I’ve been picking up some new toys lately. She’s showing more interest the more we talk about it, so I’m thinking about getting her a dual-penetrator dildo that I could possibly use with her. Hard to find good recs though — some are short, some are long, and I have no idea what actually feels better. Anyone have a recommendation that might work for a couple?

Grace:

There are toys designed to be worn like a cock ring with a dildo or vibrator underneath specifically for this. The Posable Partner Double Penetrator is one of them and might be exactly what you’re looking for. That way you both get to enjoy it together, instead of just using a double dildo on her.