Today, I’ll be diving into next-level fellatio as we explore deep-throat training. If you’ve never tried deep throat before you’re in for a treat (and so is your lover)!

Deep throating involves inserting a stiff cock into your mouth and taking it deep enough to enter your throat.

Although that sounds straightforward, deep throating can be tricky – especially if you have a sensitive gag reflex.

Thankfully deepthroat training can help improve your technique, so if you like giving head and want to blow your partner’s socks off with delectable deep throat read on.


Sex toy ideas to help you master deep throat training

When it comes to deep throat training you can use one of the realistic dildos to practice and hone your skills.

There are plenty of toys to choose from including the Blush Neo Elite 7.5", ColourSoft 5" Soft Dildo, Strap-On-Me Sliding Skin, Avant Chasing Sunsets Dil, and Avant D15 Vision of Love.

Seek out dildos that look like the real deal and closely resemble the shape, size, and texture of a typical cock.

Opt for body-safe materials such as silicone dildos or dual-density dildos for a more authentic feel.

Suction cup dildos work well too.

Dildos with suction cup bases allow for hands-free play so you can focus on your deep throat technique without trying to hold the toy in place. Choose a dildo with a strong suction cup and use a smooth, flat surface to ensure a secure attachment.

Deepthroat training tricks and tips

As with all new sexual techniques and activities don’t try to run before you can walk.

Start with a small realistic dildo and gradually train your gag reflex. As you become more comfortable with deep throat play you can increase the size of the dildo.

It’s always wise to practice deep throat on an empty stomach – unless you don’t mind sitting in a pool of vomit (never a good look).

Aid your deep throat efforts by incorporating breathing and relaxation techniques.

Slow, calm breaths through your nose can calm you and ease tension, and sticking out your tongue can help to relax and open the throat.

Playing with a patient and understanding partner can improve your experience and boost your confidence.

Your lover can provide support and useful feedback, which will prove invaluable during your training sessions.

Always communicate openly with your other half and remember consent is key.

Before you enter into play discuss your desires, outline expectations, pinpoint boundaries, and identify safe words/signals.

Key points:

  • Choose lifelike realistic dildos made of body-safe materials.
  • Look for dildos with suction cup bases for hands-free training.
  • Engage in deepthroat training with a supportive partner if desired.
  • Use plenty of water-based lubricant for comfort and ease of penetration.
  • Start with smaller-sized dildos and gradually increase the size.
  • Practice breathing and relaxation techniques to manage your gag reflex.

Ready to go down on a juicy cock?

Deep throat training should always be done consensually and at your own pace. Listen to your body and don’t strive to take too much down too soon or you'll spend more time gagging than giving head!

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Frequently asked questions about deepthroat training

What kind of toy should I buy to start deepthroat training?

Choose a small, semi‑soft dildo or a beginner "deepthroat trainer" made from body‑safe materials (medical‑grade or dual‑density silicone). A realistic shape with moderate firmness gives a lifelike feel without being too rigid for the throat. Start with a narrower size and work up, and avoid porous materials that are harder to clean.

Do suction‑cup dildos really help, or is it better to have a partner hold it?

Suction‑cup dildos are excellent for hands‑free practice: secure one to a flat, sturdy surface so you can focus on technique and breathing instead of holding the toy. A patient partner can provide feedback and support, but suction cups let you train solo at your own pace.

How do I train my gag reflex safely (so I don’t puke or panic)?

Go slow and be sensible: start with a small toy, practice on an empty stomach, breathe through your nose, and work gradually deeper across multiple short sessions. Relax your jaw and tongue, use calm slow breaths, and stop immediately if you feel pain, severe nausea, or panic. Progress is gradual - don’t rush.

What size, material and lube should I use (and how should I increase size)?

Begin with a slimmer diameter and shorter insertable length, then increase incrementally as comfort improves. Body‑safe silicone or dual‑density silicone is ideal; semi‑soft toys are often easier on the back of the throat. Use plenty of water‑based lube for comfort (avoid silicone‑based lube with silicone toys). Clean toys thoroughly after each use.

Can I train without a toy? Are there alternative tools for oral practice?

You can practice many skills without a toy - breathing control, jaw relaxation, tongue positioning, and gradual gag‑desensitizing exercises - but toys provide measurable, repeatable progress. Alternatives include blowjob trainers, strokers, or other specialty devices; if exploring BDSM gear like gags, prioritise safety, comfort and clear consent.

What safety, hygiene and communication rules should I follow?

Never force depth or train on a full stomach; stop for sharp pain or persistent gagging. Use body‑safe toys, clean them after every use with toy cleaner or warm soapy water, and store them dry. Consider condoms on toys when sharing. If a partner is involved, set boundaries, agree on safe words or nonverbal signals, and be honest about limits - consent and patience are essential.