You asked:
My partner and I, both trans guys, are looking for a toy that we can both grind and ride on for simultaneous clitoral pleasure. We currently struggle to both feel stimulation during grinding. Any recommendations?
Grace:
Have you considered grinder sex toys?
While I don't know of any double-sided models, you can improve a single-sided grinder with a bullet vibrator for mutual pleasure.
The Banana Pants Lippi and Honeybunch are great choices; they're designed to accommodate a bullet vibrator, allowing one partner to grind while the other enjoys the vibrations.
If budget allows, you could even purchase two of these toys—the silicone backs will stick together, creating a makeshift double-sided grinder.
As for the bullet vibrators, the Dame Zee is an excellent budget-friendly option, or the We-Vibe Tango X for top-notch quality.
Alternatively, a lay-on style clitoral vibrator could simplify things.
The ROMP Wave is soft and suitable for grinding, while the Cute Little Fuckers Zeep offers added texture for one partner to enjoy.
About the author
Grace Selena (she/they) is a queer, non-binary writer from Melbourne, Australia. She has been talking about sex toys online for almost a decade, with a collection now nearing the thousands.
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