You asked:
My partner and I, both trans guys, are looking for a toy that we can both grind and ride on for simultaneous clitoral pleasure. We currently struggle to both feel stimulation during grinding. Any recommendations?
Grace:
Have you considered grinder sex toys?
While I don't know of any double-sided models, you can improve a single-sided grinder with a bullet vibrator for mutual pleasure.
The Banana Pants Lippi and Honeybunch are great choices; they're designed to accommodate a bullet vibrator, allowing one partner to grind while the other enjoys the vibrations.
If budget allows, you could even purchase two of these toys—the silicone backs will stick together, creating a makeshift double-sided grinder.
As for the bullet vibrators, the Dame Zee is an excellent budget-friendly option, or the We-Vibe Tango X for top-notch quality.
Alternatively, a lay-on style clitoral vibrator could simplify things.
The ROMP Wave is soft and suitable for grinding, while the Cute Little Fuckers Zeep offers added texture for one partner to enjoy.
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