You asked:
Are there any toys or lubes for couples that can make sex more enjoyable? Nothingβs wrong, I just want to make it even better.
Grace:
Short answer: Absolutely!
Long answer: There are so many options out there. Honestly, almost any sex toy can be a couples toy if you bring it into the bedroom-it just depends on what you're into, how involved you want it to be, and what body parts you both have. For PIV sex (penis in vagina), one of the most popular options is a We-Vibe couples vibe like the Sync 2. Itβs worn inside the vagina and stimulates both the G-spot and clit, while also leaving room for penetration, so both partners feel it. If that feels like a bit much to start with, something simpler like the We-Vibe Pivot, which is a vibrating cock ring, might be more your vibe. It adds clitoral and penile stimulation without being too full-on.
When it comes to lube, definitely go with a good water-based one, especially if toys are in the mix, so everything plays nice together. I love Sliquid Sea for vaginal play and Sassy for anal. And if you want to make things a little sweeter (literally), check out the Sliquid Swirl flavored range. Itβs a fun twist that still feels great.
Frequently asked questions about using toys during sex
What toys are good to use during sex?
Short answer: Lots of them! Couples-friendly classics are wearable couples vibrators (WeβVibe Sync/Sync 2), vibrating cock rings (WeβVibe Pivot style), small bullets for spot stimulation, and handsβfree toys that let you keep kissing and touching. Dildos, strapβons, and appβcontrolled toys are great if you want more penetration or remote play. Start simple and upgrade as you discover what you both like.
Why do vibrations feel so good?
Vibrations add consistent, targeted stimulation that boosts blood flow and heightens nerve sensitivity. They can relieve tense pelvic muscles, quickly find sweet spots (clit, Gβspot, perineum), and let partners layer sensations-so one person can focus on rhythm while the other enjoys the buzz. Vary speed and placement to find what works best.
What lube should couples use with toys and intercourse?
Go waterβbased for general use-itβs safe with most toys and condoms and easy to wash off (Sliquid Sea is a good example). Use specially formulated anal lubes (like Sliquid Sassy) for anal play, and flavored lubes (e.g., Sliquid Swirl) for oral fun. Avoid oilβbased lubes with latex condoms; silicone lubes last longer but are best avoided with silicone toys (or patchβtest first).
Can any toy be used during PIV sex?
Mostly yes-many toys become βcouplesβ toys with a little creativity. Couples vibrators designed to sit during PIV (WeβVibe style) are ideal because they stimulate both partners while leaving room for penetration. If you use other toys near the action (cock rings, bullets, small vibes), pay attention to comfort and positioning so everyone stays turned on, not distracted.
How do we introduce toys without it getting awkward?
Make it playful, framed as curiosity or an experiment: βLetβs try something new tonightβ beats clinical language. Start by shopping or browsing together, pick one lowβpressure toy (a cock ring or small wearable), and set a βno pressureβ rule-try it during foreplay first. Use humor, keep communication short and positive, and debrief after: βThat was fun-what did you like?β fosters more tries.
Quick safety: how do we clean and use toys responsibly?
Clean toys per manufacturer instructions (soap + water for most silicone/metal/glass; toy cleaner if recommended). Use condoms on shared or porous toys, never move an anal toy straight to vaginal use without changing the condom and cleaning, store toys in breathable bags, and check ingredients if you have sensitivities. When in doubt, choose bodyβsafe nonporous materials (medicalβgrade silicone, glass, stainless steel).