You asked:

My wife likes having a vibrator in her vagina during anal, but it’s difficult for me to hold it in place while we’re having sex. Are there any toys that can stay in on their own and keep stimulating her?

Grace:

Absolutely. In fact, there are two types to choose from:

  1. Egg vibrators: These are internal-only toys that will stimulate her vagina, and potentially even G-Spot. The Lovense Lush 3 is the premier version of this, and will also work with the brand’s advanced phone app.

  2. "Couples vibes": These are C-shaped toys primarily made by We-Vibe. They will stimulate both her clitoris and G-Spot. Their Sync GO is the cheapest version still worth buying, and this can also be used the same way during vaginal sex.

Both types also have the chance to stimulate your penis too, since you’ll likely feel the vibrations through her vaginal wall. I’d recommend asking your wife if she also wants the option for clitoral stimulation during anal, and choosing one of the above based on that.