Bed restraints & ties

Are bed restraints safe for beginners?

Yes, as long as you follow a few key principles. Always agree on a clear safeword or signal before you begin, and check in with each other regularly during a scene. Choose restraints with quick-release buckles or velcro so either partner can get free quickly if needed. Keep safety scissors nearby when using ties or straps that do not have a fast-release mechanism. Starting with a soft, padded set lets you explore restraint play comfortably while you build confidence and communication.

How do I know if a restraint fits correctly?

A well-fitted cuff or ankle restraint should feel secure without digging into the skin. A simple guide is the two-finger rule: you should be able to slide two fingers beneath the restraint when it is fastened. Tingling, numbness, or a change in skin colour are signs that something is too tight and the restraint should be removed immediately. Most quality restraints include multiple adjustment points so you can find the right fit regardless of wrist or ankle size.

What materials are commonly used and are they body safe?

Bed restraints and bondage ties are typically made from one of the following:

• Nylon webbing: Lightweight, strong, and easy to clean. A great everyday option.
• Neoprene: Soft and padded against the skin, good for longer sessions.
• Faux leather: Gives an aesthetic similar to leather without animal products. Wipe-clean and generally very durable.
• Genuine leather: Long-lasting and develops character over time. Requires occasional conditioning to stay supple.

Whatever the material, inspect new restraints for rough edges, exposed metal burrs, or a strong chemical odour before use. If a product smells strongly of solvents or plastics, air it out thoroughly first.

How do I clean and store my bed restraints?

For nylon, neoprene, and faux leather, wipe all surfaces with a specialist toy cleaner or a solution of mild soap and warm water after each use, then allow to dry completely before storing. Genuine leather should be cleaned with a product made for leather, kept away from prolonged moisture, and conditioned periodically to prevent cracking. Store all restraints somewhere cool and dry, away from direct sunlight, and ideally in a pouch or bag to prevent hardware from scratching other items.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on the parcel and any billing statements is equally discreet, so your privacy is protected from dispatch through to delivery.