Dildo accessories

How do I know if a harness will fit my dildo?

The key measurement is the O-ring diameter on the harness. Most harnesses either come with interchangeable O-rings in several sizes or state a fixed size in the product details. Measure the widest point of your dildo's shaft and compare it to the O-ring opening. A snug but not tight fit holds the toy securely without straining the harness material. Many harnesses also require the dildo to have a flared base so it sits flush against the front panel and does not slip through.

What materials are safe for accessories that touch my body?

For any part of an accessory that contacts skin or mucous membranes, look for:

• Body-safe silicone - non-porous, flexible, and easy to sterilise
• Stainless steel or aluminium - non-porous and very durable for rigid components
• ABS plastic - hard, non-porous, and body-safe for firm parts

Avoid accessories made from jelly rubber, PVC, or unlisted mystery materials, as these can contain plasticisers that irritate sensitive tissue. Fabric harness straps are fine against external skin as long as they are kept clean and dry.

Can I use a suction-cup mount on any surface?

Suction mounts work best on smooth, flat, non-porous surfaces such as tiles, glass, acrylic bathtub surrounds, and some laminates. Textured, porous, or uneven surfaces such as rough tile grout, painted drywall, or carpet will not hold a suction seal reliably. Always test the mount without load first, press firmly to remove air, and check that your dildo has a compatible flat base before trusting the seal during use.

How do I clean dildo accessories properly?

Cleaning method depends on the material. Non-porous silicone, stainless steel, and ABS plastic components can be washed with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild unscented soap, then rinsed thoroughly and air dried. Fabric harness straps and padding can usually be hand-washed in cool water with gentle detergent and laid flat to dry completely before storage. Always check the care instructions for your specific product, as some accessories include electronic or mechanical parts that must not be submerged.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing name on your statement is also discreet. If you have specific concerns about delivery, feel free to get in touch with our team before placing your order.