Hands-free sex toys

What counts as a hands-free sex toy?

A hands-free sex toy is any product designed to stay in position and deliver stimulation or restraint without you needing to hold it. This includes wearable vibrators that sit against or inside the body, harness and strap-on systems secured with adjustable straps, and bondage or restraint fixtures that hold a position on their own. The common thread is that once it is in place, your hands are yours to use however you like.

Are hands-free toys suitable for beginners?

Yes, many hands-free options are beginner-friendly. If you are new to this style of play, look for:

• Simple, single-function designs with clear controls
• Fully adjustable straps or harnesses so you can dial in the fit before a scene begins
• A lower or variable intensity range so you can ease in gradually
• Clear instructions on how to put the toy on and take it off quickly and comfortably

Starting simple lets you focus on the experience rather than the mechanics.

What materials are safest for wearable and hands-free toys?

Body-safe, non-porous materials are the gold standard because they do not absorb bacteria, odours, or lubricant residue. Look for medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, stainless steel, or borosilicate glass for any part of the toy that contacts skin or is inserted. Avoid products described only as "rubber" or "jelly" without further clarification, as these can contain plasticisers that may cause irritation.

Which lubricants can I use with hands-free toys?

The right lubricant depends on the toy material. Water-based lubricant is the safest all-round choice and is compatible with silicone, rubber, and most harness materials. Silicone-based lubricant should not be used with silicone toys as it can degrade the surface over time. If you are unsure of a toy's material, water-based is always the safe default. Avoid oil-based lubricants with latex harness straps or latex components.

How do I clean and care for hands-free toys and harnesses?

Cleaning method depends on the components involved:

• Non-porous toy heads and inserts: Wash with warm water and a toy-safe cleaner after every use. Fully waterproof toys can be rinsed under the tap; non-waterproof ones should be wiped carefully.
• Fabric harness straps: Check the manufacturer's label. Many can be hand-washed or put in a mesh laundry bag on a gentle machine cycle, then air-dried.
• Metal or hard plastic hardware: Wipe with a damp cloth and a mild cleaner, then dry thoroughly to prevent rust or residue build-up.

Always allow all components to dry completely before storing to keep them in good condition.

Will my order be shipped discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing descriptor on your bank or card statement is also discreet. If you have any specific concerns about delivery, our customer care team is happy to help before you place your order.