Sex furniture

What is the difference between a bondage bench and a spanking bench?

The terms are often used interchangeably, but there is a subtle difference. A spanking bench is typically angled so the person kneeling on it is bent forward, presenting the bottom at an ideal height for impact play. A bondage bench is a broader term that covers any padded platform designed for restraint, which may include flat, angled, or adjustable configurations suited to a wider range of play styles. Check the shape and built-in attachment points to understand exactly what a specific piece is optimised for.

Is sex furniture safe to use for suspension or heavy restraint?

Only if the piece is explicitly rated for that purpose. Suspension places significant and unpredictable loads on both the furniture and the person being suspended, so never attempt it on a frame that is not labelled as suspension-rated. For any restraint play, confirm the anchor points, D-rings, and frame joints carry a stated weight capacity that exceeds the loads you plan to use. When in doubt, contact us before you buy.

How do I clean and maintain bondage furniture?

Most padded sex furniture uses vinyl or PU leather surfaces, which you can wipe down with a mild antibacterial toy cleaner or a diluted solution of unscented soap and water. Avoid harsh solvents or bleach, which can crack or discolour the surface over time. For wooden or metal frames, wipe away moisture promptly to prevent warping or rust. Check bolts and joints periodically and tighten anything that has worked loose, especially on pieces used for active restraint.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no external branding or description of the contents. Larger items such as crosses or benches will arrive in neutral boxes or crates. The charge on your bank or card statement will appear under a discreet business name, not the store name.

Do I need any tools or special skills to assemble sex furniture?

Most pieces ship flat-packed and include the hardware and basic instructions needed for assembly. A standard set of household tools, typically an Allen key and a spanner, is usually all that is required. That said, take your time, follow the instructions carefully, and do a firm shake-test on every joint before use. If anything feels unstable or a part appears missing, do not use the piece until it is resolved. Solid assembly is a genuine safety issue with restraint furniture, not just a comfort one.