Sex pillows

What is the difference between a sex wedge, a bolster, and a positioning ramp?

A wedge is an angled triangular shape that tilts the hips or torso to change the angle of penetration or play. A bolster is a cylindrical roll used to support the knees, chest, or neck. A ramp is a longer, gently sloped surface that supports the full torso. Many people combine a wedge and a ramp together so one partner can lie back at a comfortable angle while the other has clear, unobstructed access. Each shape solves a different positioning challenge, so the best choice depends on which positions you want to make easier or more sustainable.

How do I keep a sex pillow hygienic between uses?

Hygiene care depends on the cover material. Faux-leather or vinyl-coated covers can be wiped down with a damp cloth and a mild, body-safe toy cleaner after every use and left to air dry before storing. Fabric or plush covers should have a removable zip-off sleeve that can go in the washing machine. Avoid soaking a foam core, as moisture trapped inside can encourage mould. Using a waterproof mattress protector or a dedicated sex blanket over your positioning cushion is an easy way to reduce mess and extend the life of the cover.

Will a sex pillow hold its shape under bodyweight over time?

A high-density foam core is the key factor here. Quality positioning wedges use firm, high-density foam that resists compression and springs back to its original shape after use. Lower-density foam or cushion-fill products tend to flatten over time and lose the precise angle that makes them useful. If you and your partner are on the larger side, look specifically for products that mention high-density or firm-grade foam in their specifications, as these are engineered to support a wider range of body weights without collapsing.

Are sex positioning pillows suitable for beginners?

Absolutely. In fact, positioning cushions are one of the most accessible additions to any intimate life because they require no batteries, no settings, and no learning curve. They simply reduce the physical strain of holding a position, which makes exploration more comfortable and sustainable for people at every experience level. Beginners often find that a single wedge placed under the hips is enough to noticeably change sensation during penetration, and it doubles as a useful prop for solo play as well.

Do these products come in discreet packaging?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked outer packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside of the box. The sender name on the label is neutral and does not reference the store. If you have any specific concerns about delivery, our customer care team is happy to help before you place your order.