Thrusting and pulsating dildos

Are thrusting and pulsating dildos suitable for beginners?

Yes, with the right choice. Look for a toy on the smaller end of the size range with a gentle or adjustable thrust depth and at least three speed settings. Starting on the lowest setting lets your body adjust to the unique sensation of rhythmic internal movement before you increase intensity. If you are new to penetrative toys in general, spend some time with a standard dildo first so you are comfortable with size and insertion before adding motorised motion.

What materials are safest for thrusting dildos?

Body-safe, non-porous materials are the gold standard. The most common options you will find in quality thrusting and pulsating dildos are:

• Silicone: Soft, flexible, and non-porous. Easy to clean and comfortable against skin. The most popular material for motorised dildos.
• ABS plastic: Rigid, non-porous, and often used for the body or handle section of a toy. Completely body-safe.
• Stainless steel or glass: Less common in thrusting toys due to mechanical complexity, but entirely non-porous and very easy to sterilise.

Avoid toys labelled as jelly, rubber, or PVC. These are porous materials that trap bacteria even after cleaning and may contain plasticisers that can cause irritation.

What type of lubricant should I use with a thrusting dildo?

Water-based lubricant is the safest and most versatile choice, and it is the only type compatible with silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricant can degrade a silicone toy's surface over time, so it is best avoided unless your toy is made from ABS plastic or another non-silicone material. Avoid oil-based lubricants with motorised toys as they can be difficult to clean from moving parts and seams. A generous amount of water-based lube not only improves comfort but also reduces mechanical resistance, which helps the thrusting mechanism perform smoothly.

How do I clean a thrusting or pulsating dildo properly?

Cleaning a motorised toy requires a little more care than a standard dildo because of the internal mechanics. Follow these steps:

• Wipe down the toy with a damp cloth immediately after use to remove surface residue.
• If the toy is fully waterproof, rinse it under warm running water and clean with a mild, fragrance-free soap or a dedicated toy cleaner.
• If it is splash-resistant rather than fully submersible, clean with a damp cloth and toy cleaner only, keeping water away from the charging port.
• Allow the toy to air-dry completely before storing it, as trapped moisture can affect the motor over time.
• Store in a clean pouch or the original box, away from other toys made from different materials, to prevent surface reactions.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on any paperwork is equally discreet. Your privacy is taken seriously at every step, from the website through to delivery.