Com by Dame

Com by Dame is a body-friendly take on the classic wand shape, upgraded for comfort.

Great as a first wand or for more experienced players craving intense external clitoral stimulation, Com's curved handle makes it easy to hold while using.

Com features a strong motor, giving a deep, satisfying rumble that can be adjusted to the perfect pattern and speed.

The flexible neck contours to curves and lets users rest their arms to hold Com at the perfect angle.

Com features:

• Materials: body-safe silicone
• Vibrating toy
• 5 vibration levels
• 5 vibration patterns
• Can be controlled via buttons
• It can be used hands-free after initial placement
• Rechargeable
• Waterproof

Size and material:

• 10.5" x 1.8" / 26.7 cm x 4.6 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular

Who is this wand vibrator for?

Com by Dame is ideal for:

• Clitoral stimulation lovers who crave deep, rumbly vibrations with a broad-area wand head.
• Beginners and experienced users alike—a simple-to-use, comfortable wand with body-safe design.
• People with limited mobility who benefit from the extended handle and ability to rest the toy on a surface or body.
• Folks exploring solo or partner play looking for a toy that adapts across experiences with hands-free options.

How to use the Com?

1. Charge Com fully before first use by connecting the USB cable to the magnetic charging ports on the toy.
2. Apply water-based lube to external areas like the clitoris or nipples for added comfort and sensation.
3. Power it on via the button on the handle (press and hold for 2 seconds) and cycle through intensities and patterns.
4. Place the wand head against the desired area—experiment with angle and pressure until it feels just right.
5. Rest it on your body, pillow, or thigh for hands-free fun, or hold comfortably with your hand or forearm resting.

Great positions to try:

• On your back: Lay down and place the toy between your thighs or over a pillow for supported stimulation.
• Seated grind: Sit on a couch or chair and straddle the wand—great for hands-free clit grinding.
• Partner play: Have your partner hold the toy during oral or penetration to add vibrator-enhanced pleasure.

How to clean and care for the Com?

• Cleaning: Rinse with warm water and mild soap, or use a toy cleaner. Be gentle around the charging ports.
• Drying: Pat down with a lint-free towel and allow to air dry completely.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use only water-based lubricants; avoid silicone-based formulas to protect the toy’s finish.
• Storage: Keep in a clean, dry place away from direct sunlight and do not store in contact with other silicone toys.

Wand vibrator practical use info:

• Versatility: Can be used solo, with a partner, or for teasing erogenous zones like nipples, perineum, or inner thighs.
• Stimulation: Designed for external stimulation—especially powerful for clit-focused play.
• Accessibility: Long, curved handle design makes it easier to hold for people with limited flexibility or strength.

Additional information:

Its longer handle allows for farther reach and simpler use, also allowing it to be used while the hand is resting.

You could rest the toy on a bed or pillow and grind against it. It can also be placed in your lap or held between your thighs.

Also, its stronger power might be suitable for folks who experience decreased sensation.

However, note that folks who fatigue easily might find it tiresome to hold it for longer periods of time (unless using it differently like mentioned above).

Wands can be used on any body, which makes them ideal for sharing with partners.

Their large heads offer broad stimulation and their vibrations are often strong and deep-reaching.

Wand handles can be useful for coping with bottom dysphoria because they put distance between the user’s hand and their genitals.

Special considerations when using Com:

• Needs active grasp or hand mobility/dexterity to use or position the toy
• Needs dexterity to use buttons
• May need assistance plugging the charger in

User experience tips:

• Warm it under a towel or blanket before use to reduce the “cold silicone” surprise against your skin.
• Try different orientations with the handle—hold from the top for precise control or rest against your inner thigh for grinding.
• Start on the lowest setting and build up slowly to avoid overwhelming sensitive areas.
• Use it through fabric (like underwear or thin pajamas) if direct contact feels too intense at first.
• Try resting the toy between a folded towel and grinding on top for truly hands-free pleasure.
• When using during partner sex, let your partner control vibration settings to boost connection and mutual excitement.