Dame Play Balm is an oil-based vaginal moisturizer designed to provide relief from dryness and enhance intimate play.
Formulated with a blend of coconut oil, shea butter, and beeswax, this soothing balm has a smooth, lotion-like texture that’s perfect for daily use or as a lube alternative.
Safe for both internal and external use, Play Balm is ideal for menopausal women, postpartum care, or anyone looking to add nourishment and moisture to intimate moments.
Crafted from naturally-derived, plant-based ingredients, it comes in eco-conscious sugarcane packaging and is made with care in the USA.
Please note that while it is safe for use with silicone toys and water play, Spunk is not compatible with condoms.
Dame Play Balm features:
- Oil-based vaginal moisturizer for dryness relief and intimate play
- Gooey, lotion-like texture
- Ideal for menopausal women, post-natal care, or as a lube alternative
- Made from plant-based, naturally-derived ingredients
- Packaged in environmentally-friendly sugarcane material
- Made in the USA with body-safe, skin-nourishing oils and extracts
- Plant-oil based, silicone-alternative suitable for water play
- Safe for use with silicone toys
- Not compatible with latex condoms
Size and material:
- Size: 2 oz (60 ml)
- Ingredients: Olive oil, coconut oil, hydrogenated vegetable oil, sunflower oil, beeswax, shea butter, cucumber fruit extract, ginger root extract, calendula flower extract, strawberry fruit extract, blueberry fruit extract, althaea root extract, spinach leaf extract, rosemary oil, juniper oil, lavender oil, jojoba oil, hemp seed oil, tocopherol, soybean oil, grape seed oil, avocado oil.
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Who is this vaginal moisturizer for?
Dame Play Balm is a great option for:
- Folks experiencing vaginal dryness—whether due to menopause, postpartum recovery, or medication-driven changes.
- Users looking for a condom-free lubricant alternative for internal or external play (especially with silicone toys).
- People who prefer plant-based, minimalist skincare and want to avoid synthetic chemicals or preservatives.
- Couples engaging in non-penetrative play, who need friction-reducing moisture without the drip of typical lubes.
How to use the Dame Play Balm?
- Apply a small amount to clean fingers and gently warm between your hands.
- Spread externally and/or internally on the vulva or inside the vagina as needed. A little goes a long way.
- Use before intimacy or whenever dryness occurs for daily comfort or pleasurable moments.
- Reapply as needed—especially during extended touch sessions or if you experience friction.
- Do not use with latex condoms; it may break down the material and reduce effectiveness.
Great positions to try:
- Face-to-face cuddling: Perfect for slower, more sensual touch with less friction.
- Seated or straddling: Ideal for gentle grinding motion with hands or toys.
- Side-lying spooning: Comfortable and allows for relaxed, low-pressure penetration or massage.
How to clean and care for the Dame Play Balm?
- Cleaning: No cleaning required for the balm itself, but wash your hands and toys before and after use.
- Lube compatibility: Not compatible with latex—it’s oil-based. Safe for silicone toys and waterproof vibrators.
- Storage: Keep the balm in its original sugarcane container, stored in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight.
- Material-specific tip: Because it contains natural oils, avoid using it near latex barriers or porous materials.
Vaginal moisturizer practical use info:
- Meant to be used alone or with a partner
- Can be used externally and internally
- Anal safe
Additional information:
This might be suitable for folks who experience increased sensation because it can reduce friction and reduce sensation even more.
Special considerations when using Dame Play Balm:
- Needs hand mobility/dexterity to use
User experience tips
- Warm your hands first before application—the balm melts better and feels more soothing on contact.
- Scoop with the back of your fingernail to get the perfect dose without wasting product.
- Try as an aftercare balm: It helps moisturize intimate areas after shaving or intense play sessions.
- Do a patch test on the inner wrist if you have sensitive skin or allergies to natural extracts like lavender or juniper.
- Store upright in a cool drawer: In warmer temps, the formula may soften—fine for skin, but can get messy in bags.
- Avoid over-layering: It’s thick and nourishing, so a pea-sized amount is usually more than enough per session.