Some vibrators sit in your drawer waiting for a specific moment. The Dame Pom makes itself at home in your hand and goes wherever the feeling takes you. Its flexible, body-hugging silicone form bends and shifts to match your shape, so you're always in control of exactly where stimulation lands β no awkward repositioning, no compromise.
Made from medical-grade silicone, the Pom is smooth, skin-safe, and genuinely luxurious to the touch. With five vibration intensities and five patterns to explore, there's a whole spectrum of sensation to work through, whether you're in the mood for a gentle hum or something that really demands your attention. And because it's fully waterproof, the bath and shower are very much on the table.
Compact enough to cup in one hand, the Pom puts pleasure entirely at your fingertips β literally. It's the kind of toy that earns a permanent spot on your bedside table.
Dame Pom features:
- Flexible design: Bends and moves with your body for a personalised fit
- 5 vibration intensities: From whisper-soft to deeply satisfying
- 5 vibration patterns: Variety to keep things interesting
- Waterproof: Safe to use in the bath or shower
- Medical-grade silicone: Body-safe, non-porous, and velvety smooth
- Handheld and ergonomic: Designed to sit comfortably in the palm of your hand
Size and material:
- Material: Medical-grade silicone β body-safe, non-porous, phthalate-free, and easy to keep clean
π₯ Pleasure Scaleβ’ Rating
The Pom is a versatile, beginner-friendly powerhouse with just enough customisation to keep experienced users very happy. The flexible body is the real star β it adapts to you rather than the other way around, making it one of the more intuitive clitoral vibes on the market.
Who is this vibrator for?
- Clitoral stimulation seekers: If external vibration is your go-to route to pleasure, the Pom delivers it with precision and flexibility.
- Vibrator beginners: Ergonomic, intuitive, and non-intimidating β a genuinely great first vibe.
- Solo explorers: Compact and handheld, it's built for independent, uninterrupted pleasure.
- Couples: Small and flexible enough to comfortably incorporate during partnered sex.
- Bath and shower lovers: Fully waterproof, so your self-care ritual just got a serious upgrade.
How to use the Dame Pom vibrator?
- Charge the Pom fully before first use using the included magnetic charger.
- Apply a small amount of water-based lubricant to the toy or your body for added comfort and sensation.
- Power on and select your preferred intensity or pattern using the intuitive controls.
- Gently bend and flex the Pom to find the angle and shape that feels best against your clitoris or vulva.
- Explore the different intensities and patterns at your own pace β there's no right or wrong order.
- Power off after use.
How to clean and care for the Dame Pom vibrator?
- Cleaning: Rinse with warm water and mild soap, or use a dedicated toy cleaner after every use.
- Drying: Pat dry with a clean lint-free cloth or allow to air dry fully before storing.
- Lube compatibility: Use only water-based lubricants β silicone-based lubes can degrade silicone toys over time.
- Storage: Store in a pouch or clean, dry place away from other silicone toys to keep the surface in great condition.
Additional information:
- Waterproof: Can be fully submerged, making it suitable for aquatic play and easy rinsing.
- Gender-inclusive: Designed for anyone who enjoys external clitoral or vulval stimulation, regardless of gender identity.
- Couple-friendly: Compact form factor works well during partnered intimacy without getting in the way.
Special considerations when using the Dame Pom vibrator:
- Flexibility: The bendable body is a feature, not a flaw β take a moment to experiment with different shapes before settling in.
- Charging: Uses a magnetic charger; keep the charging port dry and free of debris before connecting.
- Grip: The handheld design is well-suited for users who prefer a toy that doesn't require a strong grip or precise reach.
- Noise level: Check the current intensity setting before use if discretion is a priority.



