The Man Wand Xtreme

The Man Wand Xtreme is a penis stimulator kit that can be used by a couple.

Man Wand - Xtreme has two flexible flaps on the massager's head that can hold a penis of almost any size while the textured silicone optimizes the vibrations and pleasurable stimulation.

The powerful vibrations of Man Wand Xtreme can be enjoyed with or without an erection and users can customize their pleasure, taking full advantage of powerful speeds and scintillating patterns of vibration.

Each setting is strong and sure to satisfy novice and experienced toy users.

Great for solo play, the vibrations from the base of the wand’s head can also be enjoyed by vagina-wielding partners too.

Man Wand Xtreme features:

• Materials: body-safe silicone, ABS plastic
• Vibrating
• 5 vibration modes
• 3 intensities
• Can be controlled via buttons
• Can be used hands-free after initial placement
• Rechargeable
• Waterproof

Size and material:

• Total length: 11.6 in / 29.5 cm
• Width: 2.1 in / 5.35 cm
• Material: Body-safe silicone and ABS plastic

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular

Who is this penis stimulator for?

The Man Wand Xtreme is ideal for:

• People with erectile dysfunction or lower arousal levels—the toy works even when not fully erect.
• Folks with a neopenis or undergoing hormone therapy—the short stroker and vibrating head offer targeted stimulation on sensitive areas.
• Partners looking to share the fun—the powerful vibes can also be felt externally by a partner.
• Those with limited mobility or fatigue—thanks to the long handle and wrist-controlled motion.

How to use the Man Wand Xtreme?

1. Charge the toy fully before first use (charging cable included).
2. Apply a water-based lubricant to the inner flaps and penis or external body part for improved glide.
3. Place the penis, tip, or genital area between the flexible flaps on the wand head.
4. Activate vibration via the control buttons; explore the 5 vibration modes and 3 intensity settings.
5. Use manually or hands-free—you may rest the wand on your body or pillow while enjoying stimulation.

Great positions to try:

• Seated recline: Great for easy access and hands-free enjoyment. Rest it in your lap or between your thighs.
• Standing shower: Since it’s waterproof, it can be used upright in the shower for vertical stroking or gliding.
• Partnered grinding: Use on a partner’s clitoris, shaft, or perineum during foreplay for mutual stimulation.

How to clean and care for the Man Wand Xtreme?

• Cleaning: Wash with warm water and mild antibacterial soap or a toy-safe cleaner after each use.
• Drying: Pat dry with a clean towel and let it air dry before storing.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use only water-based lubricant to avoid degrading the silicone material.
• Storage: Store in a cool, dry place—ideally in a toy pouch and away from other silicone toys.

Penis stimulator practical use info:

• This toy is meant to be used alone or with a partner
• It can be used externally

Additional information:

This toy might be suitable for bigger folks and for folks who have limited mobility, fatigue easily or need a farther reach since it has a handle and it might be used by moving the wrist while the hand is resting.

This toy might be suitable for folks who have spinal cord injury or experience ED because it can be used both with the flaccid and erect penis.

This toy might be suitable for folks who experience decreased sensation because of its strong vibrations.

It might be suitable for folks who experience premature ejaculation because it can help them get to know their body more and prolong their time by practicing.

Note that PE has many different factors and masturbators might not solve the problem, but might help it and are definitely worth a try.  

Special considerations when using Man Wand Xtreme:

• Needs to be thoroughly cleaned after use which requires hand/arm mobility
• Needs mobility and strength in hands to use buttons
• May need assistance to plug the charger in

User experience tips:

• Warm the wand head under running water for 1–2 minutes for extra comfort and a lifelike feel.
• Use a moderate amount of water-based lube—too much can reduce the grip of the flaps, making hands-free use tricky.
• Try it solo for the first few times to become familiar with the controls and intensity options.
• If using on a partner, experiment with different angles or stroking movements during oral or partner play.
• Let the toy rest against your body in a supportive position to enjoy hands-free pleasure—pillows can help stabilize it.
• Clean the flexible flaps carefully, as residue can gather in the textured silicone—using a soft brush can help with deep cleaning.