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Pipedream Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set

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Introduce a new level of excitement to your playtime with the Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set.

This innovative set of metal spreader bars is designed to keep you or your partner in the perfect position for maximum pleasure.

The adjustable wrist and ankle cuffs ensure a secure fit, preventing any attempts to close thighs or wrists. Experiment with new positions and scenarios effortlessly, thanks to the swivel-mounted cuffs that allow some movement.

The detachable nylon support strap provides additional versatility, opening up a world of possibilities for thrilling new experiences. With a convenient carrying case included, you can take your adventures anywhere. Get ready to open wide and enjoy the ride!

Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set features:

  • Adjustable cuffs: Secure fit for wrists and ankles, preventing closure
  • Swivel-mounted cuffs: Allow for some movement, adding flexibility
  • Removable nylon support strap: Offers unlimited position possibilities
  • Durable and sturdy for reliable restraint
  • Convenient carrying case: Easy to transport and store

Size and material:

  • Material: Metal bars with nylon straps and cushioned cuffs

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup



Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this restraint set for?

The Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set is perfect for:

  • Beginners exploring BDSM or restraint play—easy to use, not intimidating, and great for experimentation.
  • Partners wanting to enhance connection and position control during sex or sensory play.
  • Fans of roleplay or submissive/dominant dynamics who want a non-intense, body-safe way to incorporate restraint.
  • People seeking versatile positioning tools that help keep the body open for deeper and more direct stimulation.

How to use the Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set?

  1. Unpack the set from its carrying case and lay out the components.
  2. Adjust the bars to the desired length and lock in place using the provided mechanisms.
  3. Secure the cuffs around wrists and ankles—line up comfortably and fasten without over-tightening.
  4. Attach the support strap if desired for enhanced positioning options like vertical restraint or ceiling suspension (lightweight only).
  5. Check for comfort and mobility before play, ensuring circulation and safety are maintained at all times.

Great positions to try:

  • Doggy-style: Use the ankle cuffs for wider access and deeper entry.
  • Missionary hold: Secure wrists and ankles above head level for extra vulnerability and partner control.
  • Kneeling spread: Place the bars parallel in front and behind the partner’s knees for open-legged restraint from behind.

How to clean and care for the Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set?

  • Cleaning: Wipe down the metal bars and nylon straps with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner. Use a cloth dampened with antibacterial cleaner for cuffs.
  • Drying: Let all components air dry completely, especially cuffs and nylon parts, before storing.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Safe to use with all lubricants; lube contact is generally minimal with this set.
  • Storage: Store in the included carrying case in a cool, dry place. Avoid cramming in drawers to prevent bending or warping the bars.

Restraint set practical use info:

  • Versatility: Ideal for partnered use and adaptable for front, back, or kneeling positions.
  • Stimulation: Enhances access to erogenous zones through controlled positioning and immobility.
  • Accessibility: Bars hold position without needing constant hand grip, making it lower-effort during use.

Additional information:

  • Decreased sensation: Not designed for stimulation, but helpful in positioning to improve access and sensation.
  • Vaginal dryness: Use added lube during sex when using spreading restraints to reduce internal friction.
  • Painful penetration: Adjust bar length so that it doesn't push thighs uncomfortably wide—comfort first!

Special considerations when using Spread 'Em Bar & Cuff Set:

  • Mobility requirements: Requires ability to spread and hold limbs in position for short periods.
  • Dexterity: Users should be able to handle buckles and rotate clips—or have a partner assist.
  • Reach: Cuffs should be placed in positions the wearer or partner can safely reach to unbuckle during play.
  • Charging: N/A — not an electronic product.

User experience tips:

  • Try solo before partnered use to experiment with comfort levels and stretching range.
  • Add a pillow under hips during bar use for extra comfort and support in bent or kneeling positions.
  • Line the inside of cuffs with a soft cloth if skin is sensitive or easily marked.
  • Start with shorter bar settings and gradually increase length for safety and control.
  • Communicate clearly about limits and establish a safeword prior to restraint play.
  • For easy cleanup, place a towel underneath to catch any fluids or lube spills during play.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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