S&M Shadow Neck and Wrist Restraint

Test your flexibility with the adjustable connection strap. 

Use in the front or behind to keep your partner's arms in front or behind their body for prayer or hog tie style positioning.

Includes 22" heavy-duty nylon webbing collar, 20" restraint strap, and 9" cuffs.

Collar & Restraint System features:

• Materials: 75% nylon, 18% nickel-free metal, 5% hook & loop

Size and material:

• Collar: 22" / 55.9 cm
• Restraint strap: 20" / 50.8 cm
• Cuffs: 9" / 22.9 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup

Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there. Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this restraint system for?

The Collar & Restraint System is ideal for:

• Couples exploring light bondage who want restrained positioning without an intimidating setup.
• Fans of power exchange play seeking a versatile restraint that allows for both front and back bind positions.
• Those with limited space who still want an effective bondage tool without needing under-the-bed setups.
• Roleplay enthusiasts looking to incorporate prayer or hogtie-style play scenarios with a reliable collar-based design.

How to use the Collar & Restraint System?

1. Fit the collar around the neck making sure it’s snug but not tight—leave room to slide two fingers between collar and skin.
2. Attach the cuffs to the wrists using the hook & loop closures, ensuring comfort and circulation.
3. Connect the cuffs to the collar strap in front or back, depending on your preferred restraint position.
4. Adjust the length of the restraint strap (20") as needed for flexibility and effectiveness.

Great positions to try:

• Prayer pose: Restrain hands in front using the collar-strap to pin arms down for kneeling or missionary restraint.
• Hogtie-lite: Secure hands behind the back, ideal for submissive standing or bent-over positions.
• On-edge chair play: Sit your partner on the edge of a bed or chair with arms restrained for teasing accessibility.

How to clean and care for the Collar & Restraint System?

• Cleaning: Spot clean with a damp cloth and mild soap; avoid soaking metal hardware.
• Drying: Air dry thoroughly before storage to prevent mildew or fabric wear.
• Lubricant compatibility: Avoid direct contact with lubed-up skin if using oil- or silicone-based lubes nearby—might affect fabric longevity.
• Storage: Store flat or gently rolled in a cool, dry drawer away from sharp objects or direct sunlight.

Restraint system practical use info:

• Versatility: Easily removable cuffs and positioning options offer variety without complex hardware.
• Positioning: Works well in combination with furniture—bound to a chair, bedpost, or used standalone.
• Accessibility: Lightweight and portable—ideal for travel or discreet storage.

Additional information:

This might not be suitable for folks who have limited dexterity in their hands because buckles and clips can be fiddly to open and close.

Special considerations when using Collar & Restraint System:

• Needs hand dexterity and mobility to put on and off

User experience tips:

• Break it in first: If the collar or strap feels stiff, flex and bend it gently before wear to soften it up.
• Layer on comfort: Add soft wrist liners under the cuffs if playing for extended sessions to reduce pressure or abrasion.
• Introduce slowly: Try the restraint solo or in light scenarios before diving into longer sessions—it helps build trust and familiarity.
• Double-check circulation: Ensure cuffs don't overly restrict blood flow—look for signs like cold fingertips or tingling early in play.
• Customize the strap: Loop the restraint strap through bed frames, chair legs, or additional gear for more creative bondage setups.