Hoistable anodized aluminum spreader bar features nickel-free metal hardware and includes clips on each end and the middle to be used with edge wrist, arm, or ankle cuffs.
Expands from 28.5" to 37" and breaks down for easy travel.
Features index lines for easy assembly.
Spreader bar features:
- Materials: Aluminum, nickel-free metal
Size and material:
- 28.5" - 37" / 72.4 cm - 94 cm
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup
Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there.
Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.
Who is this spreader bar for?
The spreader bar is perfect for:
- BDSM beginners or curious couples who want to try light restraint and explore submissive/dominant dynamics in a safe, adjustable way.
- Power exchange players who love position control and visual aesthetics during bondage scenes.
- Traveling kinksters—its break-down design fits easily into a bag for discreet transport to parties or hotels.
- People craving limb alignment or forced exposure play in a way that’s secure but not intimidating.
How to use the spreader bar?
- Assemble the bar by aligning and connecting the segments using the index lines for proper placement.
- Clip your favorite cuffs (not included) onto any of the three strategic built-in points—ends for wrist/ankle spread, center for creative restraint.
- Position your partner or yourself into the desired pose and adjust the bar length to increase or decrease tension.
- Use the clips to attach cuffs securely and check comfort before play begins.
Great positions to try:
- Face-down spread: Attach ankle cuffs to keep the legs wide apart in a prone position.
- Doggy-style hold: Use wrist clips to pull arms forward while kneeling to increase exposure and control.
- Starfish: Clip wrists and ankles for a fully spread, body-on-display position ideal for teasing, edging, or sensory play.
How to clean and care for the spreader bar?
- Cleaning: Wipe down all surfaces with a damp cloth and mild soap or a toy-safe cleaner. Ensure metal dries thoroughly.
- Lubricant compatibility: No direct lubricant use is intended for this product. Lube should be used on associated toys or bodies instead.
- Storage: After breaking down, store in a soft pouch or container to prevent scratching. Keep away from moisture and direct sunlight.
Spreader bar practical use info:
- Versatility: Use with various restraint points (wrists, ankles, thighs), with cuffs or rope.
- Stimulation: Doesn’t stimulate directly but enhances access and positioning for hands-on or toy play.
- Accessibility: Allows for adjustment to comfort—bar expands and collapses to suit different body sizes and flexibility levels.
Additional information:
This might not be suitable for folks who have limited dexterity in their hands because buckles and clips can be fiddly to open and close.
Special considerations when using spreader bar:
- Needs hand dexterity and mobility to put on and off
User experience tips:
- Start short, then expand: Begin with the bar closer together to ease into the stretch—only extend once your body feels ready.
- Use padded cuffs: Metal-on-skin can feel harsh—opt for soft leather or neoprene cuffs for longer scenes.
- Test solo first: Practice assembling and adjusting the bar by yourself before diving into partner play—it builds confidence in setup.
- Lay down a soft blanket or mat: A cushioned surface elevates comfort, especially during floor-based positions.
- Coordinate with aftercare: Being restrained can be intense. Plan extra cuddles, hydration, or gentle massage post-play.
- Attach with intention: Use middle clip with rope or a central anchor point to prevent tipping—especially for elaborate positions.