The Wishbone harness (dildo sold separately) is constructed with narrow, attractive straps that wrap snugly around your booty while remaining secure.
Its comfort and durability ensure that both you and your partner can enjoy penetration as long as you desire.
Wishbone harness features:
- Materials: Polypropylene, polyester, polyurethane, ABS plastic, hardware, nitrile
Size and material:
- Adjustable hip straps fit hips up to 69" / 175.3 cm
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup
Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there. Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.
Who is this harness for?
The Wishbone harness is ideal for:
- Folks exploring strap-on play for the first time—simple, adjustable, and non-intimidating.
- People with erectile concerns or premature ejaculation who want to maintain penetrative intimacy with their partner.
- Partners looking to switch roles in bed—offers playful gender expression and power exchange.
- People who desire hands-free control during dildo play, especially with limited hand/arm mobility.
How to use the Wishbone harness?
- Choose your dildo (not included) that’s compatible with O-ring harnesses—typically with a flared base.
- Insert the flange of the dildo through the harness O-ring from the front so it sits tightly against the panel.
- Step into the harness like underwear or slip it on over hips depending on fit, and adjust all straps for a secure yet comfortable fit.
- Check fit and positioning by standing and moving around before use—snug, not pinching.
- Apply lubricant to the dildo if needed, then go for it!
Great positions to try:
- Doggy style: Offers deep penetration and visual connection for the harness wearer.
- Missionary: Easy to maintain eye contact and access the rest of your partner’s body.
- Standing positions: Ideal if you’re using a sturdy surface like a bed or table for support and height.
How to clean and care for the Wishbone harness?
- Cleaning: Hand wash in cool water using a mild detergent, then lay flat or hang to dry completely before storing.
- Material care: Since this harness contains fabric and hardware, avoid washing machines or dryers which could damage its shape or structure.
- Lubricant compatibility: Compatible with all lube types, but if using with a dildo, choose lube based on the dildo’s material (e.g., water-based for silicone toys).
- Storage: Store in a drawer or cloth pouch away from sharp objects, moisture, and direct sunlight to protect the straps and hardware.
Harness practical use info:
- Accessibility: Helpful for people with limited mobility or who can’t rely on erection for penetrative play.
- Stimulation: Pairs well with external vibrators or insertable vibrating dildos for dual pleasure.
- Control: Provides hands-free thrusting action, increasing stamina and rhythm potential during strap-on sex.
Additional information:
- Decreased sensation: Offers a penetrative alternative for those with ED or looking to maintain erection-free intimacy.
- Limited mobility: A solid option for wearable penetration if holding or thrusting with hands is difficult.
- Gender-affirming play: For trans masc and nonbinary folks, wearing a harness can be self-validating and pleasurable.
Special considerations when using Wishbone harness:
- Mobility requirements: You’ll need enough hip and leg mobility to step into or fasten the harness securely.
- Dexterity: Adjusting straps and inserting dildos may require good finger dexterity or a partner’s assistance.
- Reach: Ensure you're able to reach your hips and waistband to adjust the fit for safe and pleasurable use.