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Indulge in the perfect blend of sophistication and seduction with the sultry Lace Spreader Bar. Made from soft, brushed silver metal and adorned with an elegant black lace heat-pressed design, its intricate detailing adds a refined, sexy edge, transforming restraint into an art form.

Designed for both style and function, the spreader bar features sleek black clasps and D Rings on each end, ensuring quick, secure connections with your favorite accessories for effortless play. Explore new levels of control or elevate your most intimate moments with this sensual yet sophisticated piece, crafted to captivate, tempt, and tease.

Lace Spreader Bar features:

  • 22" (58 cm) long aluminum bar
  • Brushed silver finish with embossed black lace detail
  • D Rings with secure black clips on each end for fast attachment to cuffs, rope, or collars
  • Pairs seamlessly with tethers, cuffs, or bondage accessories
  • Lightweight, durable, and travel-friendly

Size and material:

  • Length: 22 in / 58 cm
  • Materials: 85% aluminum alloy, 13% steel, 2% PE plastic

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite



Brings excitement, connection, and definitely stays charged and ready.

Who is this restraint accessory for?

The Lace Spreader Bar is ideal for:

  • Couples exploring kink or bondage for the first time—this is a stylish way to dip into restraint play without feeling intimidating.
  • Advanced players looking to add a luxe, aesthetically elevated bar to their collection.
  • Those who enjoy control and anticipation—whether as the one being restrained or the one taking charge.
  • Fans of visual seduction—the elegant lace detailing brings sensual sophistication to any scene.

How to use the Lace Spreader Bar?

  1. Unclip both D ring attachments and have your chosen cuffs or tethers ready to attach.
  2. Position around ankles or wrists, depending on your desired play setup. Most commonly used for spreading the legs during foreplay or penetration.
  3. Clip compatible cuffs or straps to the D rings on each end and secure them around your partner’s limbs. Always check for comfort and circulation.
  4. Experiment with spacing: try adjusting limb positions or pairing with under-bed restraints for added angles and control.

Great positions to try:

  • Face-up restraint: Lie on your back with ankles clipped to the spreader bar for full frontal access and teasing.
  • From behind: On all fours or chest down, with legs spread by the bar to open up from behind.
  • Edge play: Sit or lie at the edge of a bed or chair while restrained for added tension and accessibility.

How to clean and care for the Lace Spreader Bar?

  • Cleaning: Wipe down with a damp cloth using mild soap if needed. Avoid harsh chemicals that may damage the lace detailing.
  • Drying: Pat dry with a soft cloth and let air dry completely before storing.
  • Lubricant compatibility: While the bar doesn't directly come in contact with sensitive areas, water-based lubricant use with your corresponding cuffs or accessories is ideal.
  • Storage: Store in its own pouch or wrap in a clean cloth to avoid scratches. Keep away from direct sunlight or areas with excessive moisture.

Restraint accessory practical use info:

  • Versatility: Can be used on wrists or ankles depending on your setup.
  • Connection: Works with cuffs, ropes, and tethers via secure D rings with clips.
  • Accessibility: Easy-to-use clips allow quick connection and release during play—great for beginners or more spontaneous sessions.

Additional information:

  • Balance and support: When legs are restrained apart, ensure that your partner is supported by pillows, furniture, or wrist grips for comfort.
  • Compatible gear: Works especially well with ankle cuffs, under-bed restraints, and submission play involving collars or blindfolds.
  • Visual stimulation: The elegant aesthetic adds a touch of romance and power play to any bondage scene.

Special considerations when using Lace Spreader Bar:

  • Mobility requirements: Requires enough limb flexibility to position arms or legs for restraint.
  • Dexterity: Easy clip system, but one partner should remain unrestrained or have access to clips for safety.
  • Reach: Ensure both partners can access the clips or have a safe word or quick-release signal to stop play when needed.
  • Safety check: Always check that no circulation is restricted and that limbs feel supported and comfortable.

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We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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