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SS Em.Ex. Contour Harness

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit. The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping... Read more

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit.

The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping accessories firmly secure.

Durable elastic waistband and nitrile (rubber) O-ring.

Interior fabric panels secure toys and provide support.

Designed with (2) bullet pockets to provide extra stimulation.

Wicking material keeps moisture under control.

EmEx features:

  • Materials: 57% polyester, 27% nylon, 15% elastane, 1% nitrile O-ring
  • Jock style

Size and material:

  • Sizes available: XS – XXXL
  • Built-in nitrile O-ring: 1.5" / 3.81 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup



Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this harness for?

The EmEx Harness is ideal for:

  • People exploring strap-on sex who want a simple, body-hugging option without bulky buckles or straps.
  • Trans and nonbinary folks looking for affirming ways to experience penetration or pack-and-play.
  • Partners looking to prolong penetration—especially those navigating ED or premature ejaculation.
  • Individuals with limited hand or arm mobility who benefit from secure support and ease of use.

How to use the EmEx?

  1. Choose a dildo or toy with a flared base that fits the 1.5" nitrile O-ring securely.
  2. Step into the harness like underwear and pull it up to fit snugly against your hips.
  3. Position the toy through the front O-ring and adjust for comfort and angle.
  4. If desired, slide bullet vibes into the built-in stimulation pockets for added sensation.
  5. Apply water-based lube to the toy and partner before play for comfort and pleasure.

Great positions to try:

  • Doggy style: Great angle and control for the harness-wearer.
  • Missionary: Ideal for eye contact and placing bullet vibes near the wearer's body.
  • Receiving from behind (wearer giving): Allows for stable thrusting and body support.

How to clean and care for the EmEx?

  • Cleaning: Hand wash in warm water with mild detergent. Air dry completely before storage.
  • Lube safety: Use water-based lubricants only if using silicone dildos to prevent material breakdown.
  • Storage: Store flat or folded in a cool, dry place. Keep away from direct sunlight and avoid contact with other silicone products to prevent damage to the O-ring or attached toys.

Harness practical use info:

  • Accessibility: Simple jock-style design allows for easier dressing—no buckles, snaps, or ties to manage.
  • Stimulation: Great for those who enjoy penetrative play with the option to add vibration via bullet pockets.
  • Versatility: Compatible with most flared-base dildos and soft packers for everyday or bedroom use.

Additional information:

  • Decreased sensation: A great tool for those managing ED, allowing them to stay engaged in penetrative play.
  • Vaginal dryness: Pair with water-based lube to reduce friction and enhance comfort.
  • Limited mobility: The pull-on style aids folks with dexterity or grip challenges, offering support with minimal adjustments.

Special considerations when using EmEx:

  • Mobility requirements: Users should be able to step into or pull on harness like underwear.
  • Dexterity: Minimal needed. No clasps—only need enough control to insert a toy into the O-ring and align it.
  • Reach: Should be able to reach genital area to secure toy and apply lube as needed.
  • Cleaning: Though machine washing isn't recommended, easy hand-wash care makes up for it.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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