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SS Em.Ex. Silhouette Harness

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit. The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping... Read more

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EmEx is designed for durability, comfort, and fit.

The soft fabric provides stretch while keeping accessories firmly secure.

Durable elastic waistband and nitrile (rubber) O-ring.

Interior fabric panels secure toys and provide support.

Designed with (2) bullet pockets to provide extra stimulation.

Wicking material keeps moisture under control.

EmEx features:

  • Materials: polyester, nylon, elastane, nitrile O-ring
  • High-cut style

Size and material:

  • XS - XXXL
  • Built-in nitrile O-ring: 1.5" / 3.81 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup



Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this harness underwear for?

The EmEx harness brief is ideal for:

  • Folks exploring strap-on play for the first time—easy to use, comfortable, and stylish.
  • People looking to reduce friction and discomfort during penetration, thanks to soft, wicking interior panels.
  • Users with erectile difficulties who want to maintain intimacy through toy-assisted penetration.
  • Partners with limited mobility needing a hands-free way to use a dildo or penetrative toy.

How to use the EmEx?

  1. Choose your toy: Select a dildo or compatible accessory with a flared base that fits into the 1.5" built-in O-ring.
  2. Insert toy: Slide the base through the front O-ring from the inside of the brief, letting the shaft extend outward.
  3. Wear like underwear: Step in as you would with regular briefs. Make sure the toy is well-positioned and snug.
  4. Adjust for comfort: Make small fit adjustments to secure the toy and ensure it stays stable during movement.
  5. Optional extras: Slip bullet vibes into the built-in pockets for added stimulation.

Great positions to try:

  • Missionary: Intimate, eye-contact-friendly, and great for alignment.
  • Standing from behind: Great for strap-on play in a natural-feeling upright position.
  • Seated lap grind: Lets your partner take charge with control over depth and rhythm.

How to clean and care for the EmEx?

  • Cleaning: Hand wash in cool water with mild detergent or machine wash gentle in a laundry bag.
  • Drying: Hang or lay flat to dry. Do not wring or tumble dry.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Safe with all lubricant types, but wash off any residue promptly to protect fabrics and stitching.
  • Storage: Store flat or folded in a clean, dry space away from direct sunlight and keep separate from silicone toys to avoid material interactions.

Harness underwear practical use info:

  • Versatility: Comfortable enough for extended wear—makes transitions from foreplay to play frictionless.
  • Stimulation: Bullet pockets allow internal vibration during use or play enhancement for the wearer.
  • Accessibility: Hands-free operation makes penetration easier for partners with limited manual strength or dexterity.

Additional information:

  • Decreased sensation: Can empower partners with ED or low sensitivity by offering a reliable and pleasurable way to engage in penetrative sex.
  • Vaginal dryness: Combine with water-based lubricant and a compatible toy to make penetration smoother and more comfortable.
  • Painful penetration: Pair with shorter toys or use an adjustable depth-control accessory like OhNut for a more customized experience.

Special considerations when using EmEx:

  • Mobility requirements: Some flexibility is needed to step into the harness and position the toy correctly.
  • Dexterity: Users will need enough dexterity to thread a base through the O-ring and make comfort adjustments.
  • Reach: Ability to reach lower body area is necessary for dressing and toy installation.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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