Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate is a lace and microfiber strap-on harness designed with both form and function in mind.

Its low-profile, lingerie-style build gives it a soft, barely-there feel, while the adaptable garter straps and stretchy waistband provide a snug, flexible fit.

An open-back cutout adds a visual focal point without compromising comfort.

Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate features:

• Adjustable garter belts and a soft stretch waistband
• Fit that moves with the body
• Universal dildo compatibility
• Open-back design
• Machine washable
• Dildo not included

Size and material:

• Available sizes: Small, Large and Extra Large
• Fabric composition: 75% Nylon, 25% Elastane
• Lace composition: 90% Nylon, 10% Elastane

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Who is this harness for?

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate is ideal for:

• Couples exploring strap-on play—perfect for those wanting to experience penetration with role reversals or pegging.
• Folks who want elegance and erotic fashion in their harness—this is for lovers of lace, lingerie and feeling sexy during play.
• People with erectile challenges, such as ED or PE, who want to stay active and connected during sex.
• Trans and nonbinary users seeking affirming ways to engage in penetrative intimacy using compatible pack-and-play options.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate?

1. Choose a dildo with a flared base that fits securely into the O-ring or harness opening.
2. Step into the harness and pull it up like you would a pair of high-waisted briefs.
3. Adjust the garter straps and waistband for a snug, body-hugging fit that stays in place during movement.
4. Secure the dildo firmly into the front panel—make sure it sits flush for stability during use.
5. Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo before penetration for a comfortable experience.

Great positions to try:

• Missionary: Offers eye contact and great angle control with the harness securely anchored.
• Doggy-style: Allows deep penetration and lets the harness stay taut with minimal adjustment.
• Standing: Adds a power dynamic—especially great with a partner bent over furniture or the bed.

How to clean and care for the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate?

• Cleaning: Machine washable on a gentle cycle. For longevity, place in a lingerie bag or hand wash with mild soap.
• Drying: Air dry flat or hang dry. Avoid tumble drying to preserve elasticity and lace detail.
• Lubricant compatibility: Safe to use with any water-based lubricant when worn with dildos.
• Storage: Keep in a clean, dry drawer or lingerie organizer—ensure it’s fully dry before storing.

Harness practical use info:

• Versatility: Compatible with most dildos with a flared base, suction toys, or packing dildos for performance or everyday wear.
• Stimulation: Some users enjoy gentle pressure or movement around the clitoris or labia while wearing the harness.
• Accessibility: Can be easier to use than jock-style harnesses for users with limited flexibility or dexterity.

Additional information:

This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.

Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate partner with a sex toy.

Special considerations when using Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Chocolate:

• Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use

User experience tips:

• Try solo wear first—get used to how it fits, feels, and fastens before introducing a partner or penetration.
• Pair with a lightweight or slimmer dildo for your first few uses to ensure comfort and prevent slippage.
• If you have body hair, trim or prep before wearing to avoid tugging as you take the harness off.
• Layer under lingerie or wear as lingerie—the open-back and lace detail can be part of the foreplay.
• Adjust garters for stability—while optional, tightening the garter straps can provide more friction resistance and reduce movement during thrusting.
• Skip the dryer—gentle drying ensures the lace retains its softness and elasticity, especially after frequent washes.