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Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red

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The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red is a lace and microfiber strap-on harness designed with... Read more

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The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red is a lace and microfiber strap-on harness designed with both form and function in mind.

Its low-profile, lingerie-style build gives it a soft, barely-there feel, while the adaptable garter straps and stretchy waistband provide a snug, flexible fit.

An open-back cutout adds a visual focal point without compromising comfort.

Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red features:

  • Adjustable garter belts and a soft stretch waistband
  • Fit that moves with the body
  • Universal dildo compatibility
  • Open-back design
  • Machine washable
  • Dildo not included

Size and material:

  • Available sizes: Medium and Extra Large
  • Fabric composition: 75% Nylon, 25% Elastane
  • Lace composition: 90% Nylon, 10% Elastane

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Brings excitement, connection, and definitely stays charged and ready.

Who is this harness for?

The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red is ideal for:

  • Couples looking to explore strap-on play with style and intimacy, combining both visual and functional appeal.
  • People who want to feel sexy while being in control, thanks to the lingerie-inspired design and flattering fit.
  • Beginners or experienced users wanting a low-profile harness they can comfortably wear under clothing or integrate into foreplay.
  • Folks with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation seeking intimate, affirming ways to penetrate a partner and extend play.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red?

  1. Select a compatible dildo—this harness fits most standard dildos with a flared base.
  2. Slide the dildo base through the O-ring at the front of the harness, securing it firmly in place.
  3. Step into the harness like underwear or put it on like lingerie briefs, gently pulling up over hips.
  4. Adjust the waistband and garter straps for a supportive, snug fit that moves with you.
  5. Communicate with your partner as you explore control, position preferences, and pacing.

Great positions to try:

  • Missionary: Great for eye contact, rhythm control, and intimacy during thrusting.
  • Doggy style: Offers deeper penetration and lets the harness sit securely without shifting.
  • Lap riding (partner seated): Allows for grind-heavy sensations and frontal stimulation.

How to clean and care for the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red?

  • Cleaning: Machine washable—use a lingerie bag and cold delicate cycle to extend fabric life.
  • Drying: Lay flat to dry or use a no-heat cycle; avoid tumble drying to protect elastane and lace.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Since the harness holds the dildo, use any lube that's compatible with your specific dildo (water-based is always safe).
  • Storage: Store flat in your drawer or toy bag; keep separate from any wet toys or silicone items after play.

Harness practical use info:

  • Versatility: Use with different dildos, including double-ended and packers for gender-affirming expression or strap-on play.
  • Support: The wide waistband and adjustable garters provide strong hold even during vigorous movement.
  • Accessibility: Open-back design allows easy access for your partner and doesn’t obstruct touch, aiding those who require visual or physical guidance.

Additional information:

This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.

Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate partner with a sex toy.

Special considerations when using Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red:

  • Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use

User experience tips:

  • Warm the dildo under water before inserting into the harness for a more realistic and comfortable experience.
  • Use minimal lube around the dildo base to prevent slipping—and test before adding more during play.
  • Pair with thong or no underwear underneath to reduce layers and get a closer fit.
  • Try practicing solo wear and movement to get accustomed to the fit and shape before using it with a partner.
  • Keep a small towel handy during switching positions to adjust or dry any slip caused by lube or sweat.
  • Store flat or hang with lingerie items to preserve elasticity in waistband and garters after washing.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

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