The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red is a lace and microfiber strap-on harness designed with both form and function in mind.
Its low-profile, lingerie-style build gives it a soft, barely-there feel, while the adaptable garter straps and stretchy waistband provide a snug, flexible fit.
An open-back cutout adds a visual focal point without compromising comfort.
Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red features:
- Adjustable garter belts and a soft stretch waistband
- Fit that moves with the body
- Universal dildo compatibility
- Open-back design
- Machine washable
- Dildo not included
Size and material:
- Available sizes: Medium and Extra Large
- Fabric composition: 75% Nylon, 25% Elastane
- Lace composition: 90% Nylon, 10% Elastane
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite
Brings excitement, connection, and definitely stays charged and ready.
Who is this harness for?
The Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red is ideal for:
- Couples looking to explore strap-on play with style and intimacy, combining both visual and functional appeal.
- People who want to feel sexy while being in control, thanks to the lingerie-inspired design and flattering fit.
- Beginners or experienced users wanting a low-profile harness they can comfortably wear under clothing or integrate into foreplay.
- Folks with erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation seeking intimate, affirming ways to penetrate a partner and extend play.
How to use the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red?
- Select a compatible dildo—this harness fits most standard dildos with a flared base.
- Slide the dildo base through the O-ring at the front of the harness, securing it firmly in place.
- Step into the harness like underwear or put it on like lingerie briefs, gently pulling up over hips.
- Adjust the waistband and garter straps for a supportive, snug fit that moves with you.
- Communicate with your partner as you explore control, position preferences, and pacing.
Great positions to try:
- Missionary: Great for eye contact, rhythm control, and intimacy during thrusting.
- Doggy style: Offers deeper penetration and lets the harness sit securely without shifting.
- Lap riding (partner seated): Allows for grind-heavy sensations and frontal stimulation.
How to clean and care for the Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red?
- Cleaning: Machine washable—use a lingerie bag and cold delicate cycle to extend fabric life.
- Drying: Lay flat to dry or use a no-heat cycle; avoid tumble drying to protect elastane and lace.
- Lubricant compatibility: Since the harness holds the dildo, use any lube that's compatible with your specific dildo (water-based is always safe).
- Storage: Store flat in your drawer or toy bag; keep separate from any wet toys or silicone items after play.
Harness practical use info:
- Versatility: Use with different dildos, including double-ended and packers for gender-affirming expression or strap-on play.
- Support: The wide waistband and adjustable garters provide strong hold even during vigorous movement.
- Accessibility: Open-back design allows easy access for your partner and doesn’t obstruct touch, aiding those who require visual or physical guidance.
Additional information:
This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.
Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate partner with a sex toy.
Special considerations when using Strap-On-Me Diva Lingerie Harness Red:
- Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use
User experience tips:
- Warm the dildo under water before inserting into the harness for a more realistic and comfortable experience.
- Use minimal lube around the dildo base to prevent slipping—and test before adding more during play.
- Pair with thong or no underwear underneath to reduce layers and get a closer fit.
- Try practicing solo wear and movement to get accustomed to the fit and shape before using it with a partner.
- Keep a small towel handy during switching positions to adjust or dry any slip caused by lube or sweat.
- Store flat or hang with lingerie items to preserve elasticity in waistband and garters after washing.