Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness

The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness is a versatile and elegantly designed strap-on harness built for both comfort and adaptability.

With adjustable straps at the waist and buttocks, this harness is made to flatter a wide range of body types while allowing for full freedom of movement during use.

The front of the harness features a double stretch silicone O-ring system, making it compatible with a variety of dildos, including SOM's collection. 

Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness features:

• Adjustable waist and buttock straps 
• Double stretch silicone O-ring compatible with multiple dildo sizes
• Snap button system for quick attachment and removal of silicone rings
• Compatible with SOM's dildos and many standard dildo bases
• Comes with a cotton storage pouch for discreet and easy transport
• Includes removable and flexible silicone O-rings
• Dildo not included

Size and material:

• Fits waist sizes XS - XXL (adjustable straps)
• Materials: 96% polyurethane, 1% silicone, 3% metal

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 💘 Date Night Favorite

Who is this harness for?

The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness is ideal for:

• Couples exploring strap-on play—great for pegging, role reversal, and power play dynamics.
• Trans and nonbinary individuals seeking affirming ways to participate in penetrative sex.
• Folks experiencing erectile challenges looking for reliable ways to maintain intimacy and penetration.
• People who value adjustability and support—its multi-point fit keeps things secure and comfortable across a range of body types.

How to use the Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness?

1. Choose your dildo: Select a dildo with a flared base that fits within the included interchangeable O-rings (note: dildo not included).
2. Attach the dildo: Snap the correct-sized silicone O-ring into place using the button system on the harness front, then slide the dildo through until secure.
3. Step into the harness or wrap it around your hips: Adjust the waist and buttock straps for a snug, supportive fit against your body.
4. Test comfort and adjust fit: Move around a little to ensure it doesn’t shift, pinch, or feel too tight anywhere.
5. Apply lube as needed to the dildo before penetration—make sure it's water-based to protect the silicone rings.

Great positions to try:

• Doggy style: Classic and allows for deep, rhythmic thrusting.
• Face-to-face (Missionary): Adds intimacy and allows for eye contact and kissing.
• Chair straddle: Have your partner sit while you're on top for full control and eye-level engagement.

How to clean and care for the Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness?

• Cleaning: Spot-clean the harness with a damp cloth and mild soap—do not submerge. Remove and wash silicone O-rings with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap.
• Drying: Air dry flat away from direct sunlight.
• Lubricant compatibility: Use only water-based lubricant to preserve the integrity of silicone components.
• Storage: Store in the included cotton pouch, in a cool, dry place, and keep separate from other silicone items to prevent material damage.

Harness practical use info:

• Versatility: Can be used by people of all genders and sizes for different roles in play.
• Attachment compatibility: Works with most flared-base dildos and compatible packers.
• Accessibility: Belt and strap system simplifies dressing for many users, especially those with limited grip or dexterity.

Additional information:

This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.

Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate partner with a sex toy.

Trans-friendly features:

For some people with vulvas, strap-on sex is a way to more intimately participate in a sex act that they may find affirming: penetrating a partner.

Harnesses also allow the user to receive handjobs or blowjobs, and can be paired with some styles of packers for all day wear. 

This harness is backless, which means it won’t obstruct the use of Banana Pants dildo buffers.

Special considerations when using Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness:

• Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use

User experience tips:

• Try solo before partnered play: Practice adjusting and wearing the harness alone first to get used to the fit and motion.
• Use thin lube layers: Too much lube on the dildo can cause slippage inside the O-ring—apply sparingly and reapply during play if needed.
• Pick the right O-ring size: Test multiple included rings if your dildo base isn’t snug—too loose may cause wobbling during thrusting.
• Pair with a buffer or packing accessory for extra comfort and stimulation—particularly great for long sessions or daily wear.
• Layer over underwear or a harness thong if you prefer to avoid direct contact with PU, or if you want extra security underneath.
• Warm up the silicone O-ring with your hands for easier fitting before snapping in your toy, especially in cooler environments.