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Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous

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The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous by Lovely Planet is a thoughtfully crafted strap-on harness that... Read more

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The Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous by Lovely Planet is a thoughtfully crafted strap-on harness that brings together a sleek aesthetic and body-positive wearability. Made from vegan PU leatherette, it offers the bold, polished look of leather without any animal-derived materials — a win for both ethics and style.

Whether you're new to strap-on play or adding a reliable harness to your collection, the Desirous is designed to feel as good as it looks. The adjustable straps help you dial in a secure, comfortable fit so you can focus entirely on the moment.

Strap-On-Me Leatherette Harness Desirous features:

  • Material: Vegan PU leatherette — cruelty-free and animal product-free
  • Category: Strap-on harness
  • Style: Leatherette harness with adjustable strapping
  • Compatibility: Designed for use with a strap-on dildo (sold separately)

Size and material:

  • Material: Vegan PU leatherette — body-safe, latex-free, and free from animal products
  • Fit: Adjustable straps to accommodate a range of body sizes and shapes

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A confident choice for anyone stepping into — or levelling up — their strap-on experience. The Desirous pairs bold aesthetics with ethical materials, making it a harness you'll actually want to reach for again and again.

Who is this harness for?

  • Vegan and eco-conscious shoppers: No animal products, no compromise on quality or style.
  • Strap-on beginners: Adjustable fit and a straightforward design make it approachable for first-timers.
  • Experienced users: A sleek, reliable harness that holds its own in any toy collection.
  • Partners exploring pegging: Comfortable enough for extended play sessions together.
  • Solo wearers: Great for practising confidence and fit before partnered play.

How to use the harness?

  1. Choose a compatible strap-on dildo (sold separately) and attach it securely to the harness O-ring before wearing.
  2. Step into the harness and adjust all straps to achieve a snug, comfortable fit against your body.
  3. Apply a water-based lubricant to the dildo for smooth, comfortable penetration.
  4. Communicate with your partner throughout — adjust positioning and pace to suit you both.
  5. After use, remove the dildo and clean both separately according to their individual care instructions.

How to clean and care for the harness?

  • Cleaning: Wipe down the PU leatherette straps and panels with a damp cloth and mild soap; avoid submerging in water.
  • Drying: Pat dry with a clean towel and allow to air dry fully before storing.
  • Lube compatibility: Use water-based lubricant with this harness to protect the material.
  • Storage: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight to preserve the leatherette finish.

Additional information:

  • Vegan-friendly: Crafted entirely from animal-product-free materials.
  • Dildo compatibility: Works with most standard O-ring compatible strap-on dildos.
  • Inclusive sizing: Adjustable design accommodates a wide range of body types.

Special considerations when using the harness:

  • Adjustability: Take time to properly adjust all straps before play to prevent slipping or discomfort during use.
  • Dildo sold separately: No dildo is included — choose one that is compatible with a standard O-ring harness.
  • Material care: PU leatherette can crack over time if exposed to harsh chemicals or excessive moisture; stick to gentle cleaning methods.

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Because of this, orders may be subject to customs charges upon arrival. In addition, due to customs regulations, the full product name may appear on the package (typically in very small print) to ensure the shipment clears properly and isn't returned.

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