Charmer is a ridged dildo designed to hit the G or P-spot.
Manufactured from Ultra-Premium Platinum Silicone, this and all Tantus toys are safe for the body and easily cleanable.
Charmer features:
- Material: Body-safe silicone
- Strap-on compatible
- Waterproof
Size and material:
- Length: 6.8 in / 17.3 cm
- Diameter: 1.4 in / 3.6 cm
- Material: Ultra-Premium Platinum Silicone
- Textured surface for extra stimulation
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular
Performs well, consistently satisfying, and fits many moods.
Who is this dildo for?
The Charmer is ideal for:
- Lovers of textured toys who crave pronounced ridges and targeted stimulation for the G-spot or P-spot.
- Partners interested in strap-on play—Charmer is harness-compatible and ideal for pegging or switching roles.
- Sensitive users who prefer non-vibrating options for a more natural, pressure-oriented experience.
- Folks exploring prostate pleasure thanks to its curve, size, and anal-safe base.
How to use the Charmer?
- Apply water-based lubricant generously to the toy and your body—especially around the entrance area to ease insertion.
- For solo use, insert at a shallow angle and experiment with gentle pressure to target the G-spot or P-spot.
- With a partner, place the Charmer in a harness for strap-on play, ensuring it's securely held in place before use.
- Warm-up recommended: With ridged textures, take time to get fully relaxed and aroused before insertion.
- Slow thrusting or rocking motions work best to let the ridges deliver extra pressure and pleasure against the intended spot.
Great positions to try:
- Doggy style: Perfect angle for accessing the P-spot or G-spot with harness or solo control.
- Missionary: Great visual connection and deeper penetration potential.
- Face-sitting (receiver on top): Lets the receiving partner take control of depth and pressure.
How to clean and care for the Charmer?
- Cleaning: Wash with warm water and mild soap or a toy-safe cleaner before and after every use. It can also be boiled or placed in the top rack of the dishwasher for deep cleaning (no soap).
- Lubricant compatibility: Use only water-based lubricants. Silicone-based lubes can degrade the silicone surface.
- Storage: Store in a cool, dry place away from direct sunlight. Keep it separate from other toys, especially those made from jelly, TPE, or lower-quality silicone to avoid material reactions.
Dildo practical use info:
- This toy is meant to be used alone or with a partner
- It can be used internally
- It can stimulate G-spot, A-spot, and P-spot
- It’s anal safe
Additional information:
This toy might also be suitable for folks who experience increased sensation since it does not vibrate.
If used in combination with a harness, it might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.
OhNut information:
If you find penetrative sex painful, consider getting OhNut.
When worn, it acts as a barrier on your toy / finger / partner.
Vaginal dryness information:
Folks who experience vaginal dryness and/or discomfort or pain associated with it, should consider using lube.
As a reminder, vaginal dryness has nothing to do with not being aroused enough.
Special considerations when using Charmer:
- Needs active grasp and hand/arm mobility to use
- Needs reach to access genitals to use OR if used with harness: needs hand/arm mobility to mount
- Needs body mobility to penetrate
User experience tips
- Warm the Charmer under warm water for 1–2 minutes—this takes the chill off the silicone and mimics body temperature for a more inviting feel.
- Start slow with the ridges—too much pressure too soon may overwhelm sensitive areas. Let your body adjust to the unique texture.
- Try Charmer in the shower: waterproof and firm silicone make it ideal for standing or squatting G-spot/P-spot exploration.
- For P-spot stimulation, aim the curve toward the belly button and use rocking motions instead of thrusting.
- If planning to use with a harness, test drive solo first to get familiar with Charmer’s size and shape.
- Store in a lint-free pouch (or even a clean sock!) to reduce dust and maintain the silicone surface.