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The Arouser by Deia

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Built for foreplay, the Deia Arouser is the perfect device to help couples get in the mood, or for a solo adventure.

The Deia Arouser offers a unique way to deliver external clitoral sensation with its delicate but powerful tapping technology that mimics human touch.

Made with body-safe materials and a rechargeable lithium-ion battery.

Due to its waterproof exterior, it is easy to clean and store.

This product is manufactured using body-safe silicone that is harmless to the human body; free from phthalates, BPA and latex.

Deia Arouser features:

  • Materials: body-safe silicone, ABS
  • Tapping toy
  • Pinpointed stimulation - mimics a human fingertip
  • 10 patterns
  • Can be controlled via buttons
  • Rechargeable
  • Waterproof

Size and material:

  • Width: 1.3" / 3.3 cm
  • Height: 3.5" / 8.9 cm
  • Length: 2.1" / 3.1 cm

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular
Makes a frequent appearance—your go-to for solo or partnered fun. Performs well, consistently satisfying, and fits many moods.

Who is this clitoral stimulator for?

The Deia Arouser is ideal for:

  • Couples looking to elevate their foreplay routine—the tapping sensation adds a unique tease to partner play.
  • Solo explorers who want external stimulation that feels like a lifelike fingertip tap.
  • People with decreased genital sensitivity who benefit from pinpointed, direct stimulation.
  • Those desiring travel-friendly toys—its compact size and rechargeable battery make it easy to take on the go.

How to use the Deia Arouser?

  1. Get charged: Ensure the toy is fully charged before use using the USB charger provided.
  2. Power up: Press the button to activate the tapping function—cycle through the 10 patterns to find your favorite.
  3. Apply water-based lube: Add a small amount of water-based lubricant to the tip for a smoother experience.
  4. Explore your body: Gently press the tapping head against the clitoris, nipples, or other erogenous zones.

Great positions to try:

  • Missionary: With a partner, let them hold or guide the Arouser for shared pleasure.
  • Cowgirl: Ride while the toy stimulates externally—take control of your rhythm and angle.
  • Spooning: A relaxed setting where the Arouser can fit comfortably between bodies.

How to clean and care for the Deia Arouser?

  • Cleaning: Rinse under warm water and wash with mild soap or a designated toy cleaner before and after each use.
  • Drying: Pat dry with a clean, lint-free towel and leave out to air dry completely before storing.
  • Lubricant compatibility: Safe with water-based lubricants only to preserve the silicone material.
  • Storage: Keep in a cool, dry space away from sunlight. Store separately from other toys to avoid potential material degradation.

Clitoral stimulator practical use info:

  • This toy is meant to be used alone or with a partner
  • It can be used externally
  • It can stimulate the clitoris, nipples, and other erogenous zones

Additional information:

  • This toy might be suitable for folks who experience decreased sensation because its pinpointed stimulation can be used on other parts of one’s body such as the underside of the penis head, nipples, neck, and other erogenous zones.

Special considerations when using Deia Arouser:

  • Needs hand/arm mobility to use
  • Needs dexterity to operate the buttons
  • Needs sufficient reach to access the genitals
  • May require assistance to plug in the charger

User Experience Tips

  • Warm the toy under lukewarm water for 1–2 minutes before play to soften the silicone and enhance the realistic tapping feel.
  • Start with slower tapping patterns to get used to the sensation—then gradually increase for a crescendo-style build-up.
  • Too much lube can dampen sensation—use a small amount and adjust as needed for best results.
  • Try using it solo to get a feel for the pinpointed motion before swapping to partnered use.
  • For extra realism, hover the tapping head slightly off-skin to mimic the feel of teasing touch.
  • Store it in a breathable pouch or case to keep dust off the silicone surface between uses.

Yes! All our packages are shipped discreetly to ensure your privacy. We ship in plain boxes with generic packaging labels.

We ship and bill as ''Rumor Lab'' - without any visible logos or stickers.

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Standard Shipping: Your products will arrive within 4 to 6 days after processing and shipping.

3-Day Expedited Shipping: $15.91 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 3 business days after processing and shipping.

2-Day Expedited Shipping: $29.65 flat rate. Your products will arrive within 1 to 2 business days after processing and shipping.

Free Shipping: Spend $89 or more to qualify. Your order will arrive in 4 to 6 days after processing.

🇨🇦 We offer identical shipping options for Canada, with prices automatically converted to Canadian dollars at checkout.

Digital products: Digital products should arrive instantly, however, we do check all orders and re-send them in 1-2 days if the system malfunctioned.

You can reach out to our email address: support@thesexshed.com or hello@thesexshed.com.

You can also reach out through the chat option in the Shop app or via any of our social media accounts (might take more time to respond).

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