How to use pocket pussy & best ways to play

When you’re in the mood to cum, but there’s no vagina on the horizon you could give yourself a decent five-knuckle shuffle to take the edge off.

But if you fancy a more authentic sexual experience, you’ll love the compact and fun pocket pussy.

But how to use a pocket pussy?

Introduction to using pocket pussies

The pocket pussy looks like a vagina, feels like a vagina, and the handheld male masturbation toy is highly likely to make you shoot your load.

Using the pocket pussy can also help you boost your sexual stamina so you will last longer when you’re doing the deed, and the toy can allegedly help combat erectile dysfunction too. 

Pick up one of the standard pocket pussies aka manual masturbators or strokers and you’ll usually find it comprises an exterior case with a sleeve inside (typically made from medical-grade silicone or TPE).

You can choose a closed-ended pussy pocket or an open-ended one. Closed-ended toys stimulate your shaft and bell-end with a sucking sensation. Open-ended pockets are easy to use and clean but won’t tickle your tip as much. 

The internal sleeves can also vary in texture.

Some are smooth and some boast textured designs featuring beads and ribbing for extra pleasure.

Powered masturbators and strokers buzz your cock while it’s inside and extra long sleeves allow you to go balls deep for intense thrusting.

For an advanced, care-free option high-end opt for hands-free masturbators.

You can use the mobile app to control your toy and some cutting-edge pussies can even connect with porn movies for a fully immersive sexual experience. 

App-controled and interactive masturbators usually cost more but offer tons of extra fun features. There are many great brands in our store, but when it comes to app features, Lovense sex toys are top notch.

How to use a pocket pussy - solo or with a partner 

The good thing about a pocket pussy is that you can masturbate on your own or use it with your lover.

Either way, you’ll need to find a private place to get it on. It doesn’t matter if you’re on your own or with a partner, you can still tap into your naughty side by watching porn or reading an erotic novel to build excitement.

There’s no need to grab a sleeve and slide straight in, foreplay is still the best way to kick things off.

If you’re with a partner talk about what you’d like to do to each other, talk dirty, and share intimate fantasies.

Take your time, kissing and caressing, stroking and fondling until you’re ready to move things up a gear. 

As with the majority of sex toys, lubrication is essential for maximum enjoyment.

You need a lubricant for a pocket pussy

Real pussies are moist and juicy when they’re aching for cock – but pocket pussies don’t respond that way.

You may be met with resistance and friction if you don't use a water-based sex lubricant with your toy, which will curb your enthusiasm and fun. 

Lubricant not only helps you to thrust in and out friction-free it can also be used to heighten sensory pleasure.

Try using a stimulating lubricant with your pocket pussy

Use a stimulating sex lubricant (warming lubricant or a cooling one) for different temperature sensations and if you fancy elongating masturbation try out a lube that numbs your dick. 

If you are playing alone with your pussy pocket there’s more than one way to wank so don’t be afraid to experiment.

Squeeze the pocket pussy in different places

Slide your dick into the sleeve and try squeezing the sleeve in different places, vary the force by pressing lightly in some areas and more firmly in others. 

You can also apply pressure to various parts of your dick, the most sensitive being the tip of the penis and the frenulum.

Get into a rhythm

Try getting into a rhythm too, you can do this by clasping the sleeve for a few seconds and then releasing.

Repeat until you’re ready to burst.  

Change the tempo

Change the tempo and pace to vary sensations.

Try slow and gentle thrusts, to begin with, and then speed up. Thrust harder and faster and then slow down so you get worked up.

You’ll be groaning with ecstasy before you know it. 

Edge yourself (or have your partner do it)

You can even use your pocket pussy for solo edging.

Edging involves playing with yourself until you’re almost ready to squirt. You then stop for a short time before wanking again.

Edging can be frustrating but that’s half the fun, you’ll be desperate to jizz, but by stopping and starting you will work yourself into a frenzy. 

Couples and a pocket pussy

Couples can benefit from a pocket pussy too – you can get up to all sorts of sexual shenanigans while you pump the pussy.

Slide your cock into the sleeve and go down on your lover, licking and sucking until you both cum.

Blowjobs and open-eneded toys

If you use an open-ended sleeve, you can slip it over your dick and stroke your shaft while your lover gives you head.

You won’t forget that blow job in a hurry. 

Learn 5 ways to incorporate toys into oral sex (for every body).

You can also pleasure your partner with your hands by letting your fingers roam over their naked flesh.

They can do the same for you. Enjoy fucking the sleeve while you caress one another to heighten play. 

Mutual masturbation

Mutual masturbation is another pleasurable option and a great way to find out what you both like.

Engaging in self-love in front of each other is intimate and plenty of people find it a real turn-on.

Push your penis into the sleeve and shag your pussy pocket while you watch your other half finger their pussy or pull their own cock.

Add BDSM into the mix

Add a BDSM element to your couple play by incorporating bondage and impact.

Being restrained can leave you feeling exposed but can add a thrilling edge.

With your wrists and ankles ties your partner can take control of the pocket pussy, using it to tease you until you’re begging for mercy.

Add a spanking into the mix and you’ll end up with red cheeks along with a stiffy to be proud of. 

So, there you have it.

The pocket pussy could be a great addition to your toy box.

Use it to masturbate when you’re on your own or take it into the bedroom for a date night with your lover.

It might take a few goes to become comfy with your toy but you’ll soon be thrusting and fucking your pocket pussy until you cum. 

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