You asked:
I’m really excited to try pegging with this girl I’m seeing, but I’m just not ready yet. I’ve used a vibrator anally before and it felt good, but mostly just made me feel full, if that makes sense. I bought a butt plug, but sadly I grossly overestimated my ability and it’s too big. How do I actually get better at this and is there something wrong with me?
Grace:
Everything you've said sounds very normal, especially overestimating your first plug (happens to the best of us). So no, there's absolutely nothing wrong with you.
What you need is an anal training kit. They’re made for this exact kind of buildup, and they’re usually way more cost effective than buying plugs one by one. You get a range of sizes so you can slowly work your way up, and a bunch of other anal essentials. I really like the b-Vibe Anal Training Set, but depending on how large a diameter you're hoping to eventually take, something like the Tantus Cone might be a good alternative, with the cone design helping to ease you in gradually.
And when you’re ready for the main event, make sure to pick an appropriate toy. I’d go for something smooth and simple, and the smaller it is, the higher the chance it'll fit. You can always upgrade later. I'd suggest looking at the Tantus Silk S, it's designed exactly for this.