You asked:
As a total beginner to anal play, I'm finding it challenging to even fit a single finger comfortably. I've been advised that an anal training kit might help. Can you recommend one that's suitable for someone very tight, doesn't resemble a penis, and isn't too expensive? Bonus if it's focused on prostate play.
Grace:
First off, it's crucial to use plenty of lube, especially for anal play. I can't emphasize enough how important anal-specific water-based sex lubricants like Sliquid Sassy is—it really makes a difference in making insertion smoother and more comfortable.
From butt plug sets, the b-Vibe Anal Training Kit is generally my recommendation for beginners due to its comprehensive content and value. However, given your particular tightness, this might not be the best start for you.
Instead, I'd suggest starting with something like anal beads, which tend to be smaller and more gradual than butt plugs. The Anal Lovers Kit could be a great option for you. It includes five different anal toys, starting with a very small pink toy that would be ideal for your situation, and even includes a prostate toy.
This kit allows you to progressively advance at your own pace without needing to purchase additional toys separately, and it's very reasonably priced.
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