App & remote-controlled prostate toys

What is the difference between a Bluetooth app-controlled toy and one with a handheld remote?

A handheld remote communicates directly with the toy over a short radio frequency, typically up to around ten metres, making it reliable and instant with no phone required. An app-controlled toy uses Bluetooth to connect your smartphone to the toy, which gives you a much richer interface including custom vibration patterns, intensity sliders, and the ability to hand control to a partner via the internet regardless of distance. If long-distance play or detailed pattern customisation matters to you, an app-connected prostate massager is the better choice. If you want something simple and reliable in the same room, a remote-controlled option is hard to beat.

Are these toys safe to use internally, and what materials should I look for?

Yes, when made from the right materials. For any internally used toy, prioritise:

• Body-safe silicone - non-porous, flexible, and easy to sterilise
• ABS plastic - firm, non-porous, and often used for motor housings
• Stainless steel or borosilicate glass - non-porous and can be fully sterilised

Avoid toys described only as "rubber," "latex," or "jelly" without a clear body-safe rating, as these materials are porous and can harbour bacteria. Every toy in this collection is selected with body-safety in mind, but it is always worth checking the individual product listing for the exact material breakdown.

What lubricant should I use with a silicone prostate massager?

Use a good-quality water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface of silicone toys over time, which may affect both the feel and the hygiene of the material. Water-based lube is also compatible with ABS plastic components and is easy to clean away. Because the anal canal does not self-lubricate, apply lube generously to both the toy and the body before insertion, and reapply as needed during use.

How do I clean and care for an app or remote-controlled prostate toy?

After each use, wash the toy with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or a small amount of mild unscented soap. If the toy is fully waterproof (IPX7 rated or higher), you can rinse it under running water. Make sure the magnetic charging port is dry before recharging. Store the toy in a clean pouch or the original box, away from other toys made of different materials, as some materials can react if stored in contact with each other. Check the battery before a session and charge fully after use to maintain battery health over time.

Is my order packaged discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are shipped in plain, unmarked outer packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on the label is neutral and will not identify the nature of what is inside. Billing descriptions are equally discreet, so your statement will not reference the product or the store name in a way that draws attention.