Dildos

What materials are safest for a dildo?

Look for non-porous materials: body-safe silicone, borosilicate glass, stainless steel, and hard ABS plastic. These cannot absorb bacteria or odours, making them far more hygienic than porous materials such as rubber, jelly, or PVC, which can harbour pathogens even after washing. If a product description does not clearly state the material, that is a good reason to look elsewhere.

What size dildo should a beginner start with?

A slimmer girth and a modest length are the most comfortable starting points. As a general guide, many beginners find a circumference of around 4 to 4.5 inches manageable. Once you are comfortable, you can gradually explore wider or longer options. Taking your time and listening to your body matters far more than rushing toward a larger size.

Do I need a special lubricant with a silicone dildo?

Yes. Use a water-based lubricant with silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade the surface of silicone toys over time, breaking down the material and potentially trapping bacteria. Water-based lubes are safe with every dildo material and are a reliable choice across your whole collection.

How do I properly clean and care for a dildo?

The cleaning method depends on the material:

• Non-motorised silicone, glass, and stainless steel can be boiled for a few minutes, run through the top rack of a dishwasher without detergent, or wiped with a 10% bleach solution followed by a thorough rinse. This fully sterilises them.
• ABS plastic and hard acrylic should be washed with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Do not boil these.
• Always dry your dildo thoroughly before storing it, and keep silicone toys stored separately or in individual pouches to prevent surfaces from reacting with one another.

Is discreet shipping available?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing name on your statement is equally discreet. If you have specific questions about how your order will appear, our customer care team is happy to help before you place your order.