Non-vibrating strap-on dildos

Do I need a special harness for a non-vibrating strap-on dildo, or will any harness work?

Most strap-on dildos designed for harness use have a flared, O-ring-compatible base. The key measurement is the internal diameter of the harness O-ring compared to the base width of the dildo. A snug fit means less movement during use and better control. Many harnesses come with interchangeable O-rings in different sizes so you can swap dildos easily. If you are buying a dildo separately from a harness you already own, check both measurements before purchasing.

What materials are safest for a strap-on dildo?

The gold standard for body-safe strap-on dildos is 100 percent platinum-cured silicone, borosilicate glass, or body-safe stainless steel. These materials are:

• Non-porous, meaning bacteria and fluids cannot seep inside
• Free from phthalates and other harmful plasticisers
• Compatible with full sterilisation between uses

Avoid dildos labelled as jelly, rubber, or PVC. These are porous, difficult to clean thoroughly, and may contain additives that can cause irritation. If a product has a noticeable chemical smell, that is a sign the material may not be body-safe.

What lubricant should I use with a non-vibrating strap-on dildo?

The right lubricant depends on the dildo material. Water-based lubricant is compatible with all body-safe materials, including silicone, glass, and metal, and is the safest all-round choice. Silicone-based lubricant provides longer-lasting slip and is ideal for glass or metal dildos, but it should not be used with silicone toys as it can degrade the surface over time. Always use a generous amount of lubricant for comfort and to reduce friction, particularly for anal play.

How do I clean and care for a non-vibrating strap-on dildo?

Non-porous materials are straightforward to clean. For silicone, glass, and stainless steel dildos with no electronic components (which applies to all non-vibrating styles), you can:

• Boil in water for three minutes
• Place on the top rack of a dishwasher without detergent
• Soak in a 10 percent bleach solution, then rinse thoroughly

For everyday cleaning between uses with the same partner, warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild unscented soap is sufficient. Harnesses made from nylon or neoprene can usually be machine-washed; leather harnesses should be wiped clean and conditioned according to the manufacturer's guidance. Always allow everything to dry completely before storing.

Is my order packaged discreetly?

Yes. All orders are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The sender name on the parcel does not reference the store name in a way that identifies what is inside. Your privacy is treated with complete discretion at every stage, from checkout through to delivery.