Pegging toys

What size dildo should we start with for pegging?

If the receiving partner is new to anal play, a slim dildo in the region of 1 to 1.25 inches in diameter is a comfortable starting point. Prioritise a smooth surface and a gentle curve toward the prostate rather than pronounced texture. Spend plenty of time on warm-up, use a generous amount of water-based lubricant, and only consider moving to a fuller size once both partners feel relaxed and confident. There is no rush, and smaller does not mean less pleasurable.

Are the dildos in this collection compatible with any harness?

Compatibility comes down to the O-ring opening on the harness and the base diameter of the dildo. Most harnesses use interchangeable O-rings in common sizes such as 1.5 inches or 2 inches. Before buying, check the listed base diameter of your chosen dildo and match it to an O-ring that holds it snugly without excessive wobble. A flared base is also essential for safe anal use, ensuring the toy cannot travel beyond reach during play.

What materials are safest for pegging toys?

Look for non-porous materials that cannot harbour bacteria even after thorough cleaning. Platinum-cured silicone is the most popular choice: it is firm yet flexible, body-safe, and free from phthalates. Stainless steel and borosilicate glass are also fully non-porous and can be sterilised by boiling or running through a dishwasher without detergent. Avoid unverified rubber, jelly, or unlabelled PVC, as these materials are porous and may contain irritating additives.

How do we clean a harness and dildo after use?

Clean both components as soon as possible after play. For non-porous silicone, glass, or steel dildos with no internal mechanics, you can boil for three minutes, use a 10 percent bleach solution rinse followed by a thorough water rinse, or run them through a dishwasher on the top rack without detergent. For harnesses, check the manufacturer label: most fabric or vegan leather harnesses are hand-washed in warm soapy water and left to air dry completely before storage. Keeping dildo and harness clean extends their life and protects both partners.

Do you ship pegging toys discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing name on your statement is equally discreet. If you have a specific concern about delivery or packaging, our customer care team is happy to help before you place your order.