Tomboi and Tomboii harness briefs slide on and off smoothly, without any chafing buckles, dangling straps, pinched skin, or other baggage to get in the way.
Tomboii works great with most strap-on dildos and strap-on vibrators.
Tomboii features:
- Materials: 85% Lenzing Modal - Rayon, 15% Spandex
- 3 pockets for bullets
- 2 holes for varied angles or double penetration
- Internal packing strap for pack and play
- Condom pouch
Size and material:
It is recommended to order one size bigger if you are in-between sizes.
SIZE XS
- Low waist: 26" - 28" / 66.04 cm - 71.12 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.71 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE S
- Low waist: 29" - 32" / 73.66 cm - 81.3 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE M
- Low waist: 33" - 37" / 83.82 - 93.98 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE L
- Low waist: 38" - 40" / 96.52 cm - 101.6 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 - 17.96 cm
SIZE XL
- Low waist: 41" - 44" / 104.14 cm - 111.76 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE 2X
- Low waist: 45" - 48" / 114.3 cm - 121.92 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE 3X
- Low waist: 49" - 52" / 124.46 cm - 132.08 cm
- O-ring diameter:: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE 4X
- Low waist: 51" - 56" / 129.54 cm - 142.24 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
SIZE 5X
- Low waist: 57" - 60" / 144.78 cm - 152.4 cm
- O-ring diameter: 1.25" - 2.25" / 3.18 cm - 5.72 cm
- O-ring circumference: 3.92" - 7.07" / 9.96 cm - 17.96 cm
🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating
This Toy: ♻️ Rotation Regular
Performs well, consistently satisfying, and fits many moods.
Who is this harness brief for?
The Tomboii is ideal for:
- Folks exploring strap-on play who want a comfortable, no-strap, no-buckle harness experience.
- People with ED or sensory differences looking for a reliable way to enjoy penetration and prolong intimacy.
- Queer couples or gender-diverse users who want a gender-affirming and flexible harness experience.
- Anyone seeking easy, low-profile gear that doubles for play, packing, and comfort throughout the day.
How to use the Tomboii?
- Select your dildo or vibrator: Most standard-base toys will fit in the O-rings (1.25"–2.25" diameter).
- Slide into the Tomboii briefs: Just like regular underwear—no extra buckles or straps.
- Insert your toy from the front: Choose one of two front panel openings for your ideal angle or for double penetration play.
- Use the bullet pockets: Add a vibrating bullet for clitoral or base stimulation if you like.
- Pack and play: Use the internal packing strap for secure all-day wear and a realistic bulge.
Great positions to try:
- Face-to-face (missionary or standing): The low-profile design makes this harness excellent for close connection.
- Doggy style: Provides leverage and great angle control without shifting.
- Spooning: The snug fit keeps everything aligned for slow, intimate vibration or thrusting play.
How to clean and care for the Tomboii?
- Cleaning: Machine wash cold on a gentle cycle or hand wash. Do not bleach or iron.
- Drying: Air dry flat or tumble dry on low. Avoid high heat to maintain elasticity.
- Lube compatibility: All lubes are fine with the fabric, but remember to clean off silicone or oil-based lubes from attached dildos thoroughly to prevent residue staining.
- Storage: Store in a clean drawer or lingerie bag. Keep separate from silicone toys if residue is present.
Harness brief practical use info:
- Decreased sensation: Ideal for individuals who prefer penetrative play without relying on erection or arousal.
- Vaginal dryness: Combine with lubricant and an insertable dildo for more comfortable penetration.
- Painful penetration: Offers stable, controlled thrusting that can be more comfortable than body-to-body pressure. Use shallower toys or try with OhNut rings if needed.
Additional information:
- This might be suitable for folks who have trouble maintaining erection, experience premature ejaculation, or erectile dysfunction because it can be a great way to penetrate and prolong sex.
- Also, this might be suitable for folks with limited mobility in arms/hands because it can provide a way to penetrate a partner with a sex toy.
Special considerations when using Tomboii:
- Needs mobility and flexibility to put it on and use
User experience tips:
- Try it solo first: Practice inserting your dildo and adjusting fit before using with a partner—it helps you feel more in control and confident.
- Pair with a soft packer for everyday use: The internal strap can hold it in place securely for gender-affirming wear.
- Bullet vibes can shift—secure with fabric tape if needed: A little added hold can keep the stimulation consistent.
- Test lube placement: Some users prefer applying lube to the toy before placing it in the harness, while others insert it after—it depends on the toy’s grip and material.
- For double penetration play: Use two slim toys first to get used to the sensation and spacing of the front-openings.
- Machine wash regularly: It helps the fabric keep shape and removes lube residue that might affect long-term wear.