Sportsheets Ember Strap On

Great style for those new to pegging.

It's easy to get on and comfortable to wear.

It has four-way adjustable straps that fit up to 60" / 152.4 cm hips.

Accommodates dildos with a flared base. 

Dildos and rings can be changed. 

Harness features:

• Materials: polypropylene webbing, velboa fabric, polyvinyl, polyester fabric

Size and material:

• O-ring size: 1.5" / 3.8 cm
• Adjustable straps that fit up to 60" / 152.4 cm hips

🔥 Pleasure Scale™ Rating

This Toy: 🎒 Bedroom Backup

Solid choice, not always first pick but glad it's there.
Reliable, easy to use, and perfect as a secondary option in your toy drawer.

Who is this harness for?

This harness is an excellent option for:

• Beginners to strap-on play who want something easy to use and simple to adjust.
• Folks exploring pegging for the first time, whether solo or with a partner.
• People with ED, premature ejaculation, or trouble maintaining erections, offering penetrative options without relying on arousal status.
• Trans and nonbinary users seeking connection, affirmation, or gender expression through penetrative play.

How to use the harness?

1. Adjust the straps before play to fit comfortably around your hips (up to 60" / 152 cm).
2. Insert your dildo with a flared base through the O-ring. Ensure it’s securely fastened and sits flush with the front of the harness.
3. Step into the harness like you would a pair of underwear, then tighten the straps to feel snug but not restrictive.
4. Warm up with some external play or grinding before full penetration to build comfort and confidence.
5. Switch out dildos as needed for different sizes or sensations—the O-ring is compatible with most flared-base toys.

Great positions to try:

• Doggy style: Great for depth control and thrusting rhythm.
• Face-to-face: Seated or missionary styles allow for deeper intimacy and smoother adjustment.
• Cowgirl (partner on top): Great for letting the receiving partner control depth and pace.

How to clean and care for the harness?

• Cleaning: Spot-clean with mild soap and warm water. Machine wash on gentle cycle if needed (in a laundry bag). Air dry only—no tumble drying.
• Lubricant compatibility: Since the harness doesn't make direct genital contact, any lube is fine for use with your dildo. Use water-based lube for silicone toys.
• Storage: Store flat or lightly rolled in a drawer or dedicated toy bag. Keep away from damp environments or direct sunlight to prevent fabric degradation.

Harness practical use info:

• Versatility: Suitable for penetrative play across many gender pairings and power dynamics.
• Compatibility: Works with most standard flared-base dildos. Consider experimenting with different shapes for varied sensations.
• Accessibility: Can make sex more comfortable for people with mobility issues by enabling hands-free thrusting or maintaining steady rhythm.

Additional information:

• Decreased sensation: This harness can help partners share and enjoy intimate penetration even when one person experiences limited sensation.
• Vaginal dryness: Use lube regularly with insertables to ensure comfort and pleasure for both partners.
• Painful penetration: Pair with slim or flexible toys to reduce pressure and discomfort; go slow and check in often.

Special considerations when using harness:

• Mobility requirements: You’ll need moderate flexibility and mobility to strap it on and adjust properly.
• Dexterity: Fine motor ability is needed to tighten and adjust strap buckles.
• Reach: You’ll need to reach hips and groin area to step in and secure the harness.
• Charging: Not applicable unless pairing with a vibrating dildo or remote-controlled insertable.

User experience tips:

• Trim pubic hair around the strap areas to prevent discomfort or tugging during removal.
• Practice walking around or gently grinding in it before engaging in sex—it’ll help you get used to the feel and motion.
• If the O-ring doesn't fit your favorite dildo, swap it with another compatible size (many harnesses are O-ring interchangeable).
• Layer with soft cotton or moisture-wicking panties underneath if you’re playing for longer sessions—it boosts comfort.
• Use a mirror the first time to help position the dildo straight and check fit.
• Try the harness solo with a toy in a pillow or mount to explore movement and angles before sharing with a partner.