Sex toys for penises

What is the difference between a cock ring, a stroker, and a prostate massager?

A cock ring sits at the base of the penis (and sometimes around the testicles) to slow blood flow out of an erection, making it firmer and prolonging play. A stroker or sleeve is held or worn over the shaft and creates stimulation through texture, pressure, or vibration during masturbation or partnered use. A prostate massager is inserted anally to reach the prostate gland, which sits a few centimetres inside and can produce intense internal orgasms. Each toy serves a different purpose, and many people enjoy all three for different occasions.

How do I measure for a cock ring or cock cage so it fits safely?

For a cock ring, measure the circumference of the base of your penis while flaccid using a soft tape measure or a piece of string, then divide by pi (roughly 3.14) to get the diameter you need. For a cock cage, you will also need the length of your flaccid penis. Always size for your flaccid state, since these devices are usually put on and taken off without an erection. If you are between sizes, size up for comfort. A ring or cage that is too tight can restrict blood flow, so start with something with a comfortable margin and wear it for short sessions first.

Are these toys safe to use with lubricant, and which type should I choose?

Lubricant is strongly recommended with most penis toys, especially strokers and any toy used around sensitive skin. Water-based lubricant is compatible with every toy material and is the safest all-round choice. Silicone-based lubricant lasts longer and is great with hard materials like stainless steel, ABS plastic, and glass, but it should never be used with silicone toys as it breaks down the surface over time. Avoid oil-based lubes with strokers that contain latex or TPE, and always check the product description if you are unsure.

How do I clean and store penis toys properly?

Clean every toy before and after use. For non-motorised stainless steel or glass toys, you can boil them or run them through a dishwasher (top rack, no detergent) to fully sterilise them. Silicone and ABS plastic toys with motors should be wiped down and washed with warm water and a dedicated sex toy cleaner, keeping the charging port dry. Porous materials like TPE or rubber cannot be fully disinfected, so they are for single-person use only and should be replaced regularly. Store toys in individual pouches or the original packaging to prevent materials from reacting with each other.

Will my order arrive discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are shipped in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing name on your statement is also discreet. If you have any specific concerns about packaging or delivery, you are welcome to get in touch with the team before placing your order.