Vibrating prostate massagers

What size prostate massager should I start with?

If you are new to prostate massagers, begin with a slimmer toy, typically around 1 inch or less in diameter at the widest insertable point. Look for a smooth, tapered tip that makes insertion comfortable and a well-defined flared base or loop to keep the toy safely in place. As you become more comfortable, you can explore fuller shapes that provide more pressure against the prostate.

What materials are body-safe for prostate massagers?

Always choose non-porous materials, which cannot absorb bacteria or odours over time. The most common body-safe options are:

• Body-safe silicone - soft, flexible, and easy to clean
• ABS plastic - firm, smooth, and completely non-porous
• Stainless steel or aluminium - very firm, temperature-play friendly, and fully sterilisable

Avoid toys labelled simply as rubber, jelly, or PVC, as these materials can be porous and may contain irritants.

What kind of lubricant should I use?

For silicone prostate massagers, use a good quality water-based lubricant. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toys over time and may shorten the life of your toy. If your massager is made from ABS plastic or stainless steel, both water-based and silicone-based lubricants are safe to use. Because anal tissue does not self-lubricate, always use a generous amount of lube and reapply as needed.

How do I clean and care for my prostate massager?

After every use, wash your toy with warm water and a dedicated toy cleaner or mild unscented soap. For non-motorised stainless steel toys, you can boil them or run them through a dishwasher on the top rack without detergent for a deeper clean. Motorised silicone or ABS toys should not be submerged unless they are rated fully waterproof, in which case rinsing under running water is fine. Always dry your toy completely before storing it, ideally in a breathable pouch away from other toys to prevent material contact reactions.

Will my order be shipped discreetly?

Yes. All orders from The Sex Shed are dispatched in plain, unmarked packaging with no indication of the contents on the outside. The billing name that appears on your bank statement is also discreet, so your privacy is protected from checkout to delivery.