Using a remote-controlled vibrating butt plug for discreet public play can be a thrilling experience, but it requires some preparation and caution.

Here's a step-by-step guide to help you enjoy it safely:

  1. Choose the Right Butt Plug:

    • Select a remote-controlled vibrating butt plug made from body-safe materials like silicone.
    • Ensure it has a flared base to prevent it from getting fully inserted and safe retrieval.
    • Great plugs for such a play are: We-Vibe Ditto or OhMiBod Lumen.
    • Alternatively, check other butt plugs we carry. The plug does not have to be vibrating or have a remote control option, even the ''regular'' butt plugs can provide a fun and pleasurable experience.

  2. Practice at Home:

    • Before trying it in public, practice using the butt plug at home to get comfortable with the settings and sensations.

  3. Find a Discreet Location:

    • Choose a public place where you can maintain privacy and won't risk exposing yourself to others.
    • Start with locations like a secluded park, empty movie theater, or private bathroom stall.

  4. Wear Discreet Clothing:

    • Dress in clothing that allows easy access to the remote control without drawing attention.
    • Consider wearing looser-fitting bottoms like skirts or dresses for quick adjustments.

  5. Use Lubrication:

    • Apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant to the butt plug for comfortable insertion.

  6. Insertion:

    • Insert the butt plug slowly and carefully to ensure a comfortable fit.
    • Keep the remote control accessible but concealed.

  7. Start with Lower Intensity:

    • Begin with the lowest vibration setting to get accustomed to the sensations.
    • Gradually increase the intensity as you become more comfortable.

  8. Experiment with Settings:

    • Explore different vibration patterns and intensities to find what excites you the most.

  9. Stay Attentive:

    • Be aware of your surroundings and avoid situations where getting caught may lead to embarrassment or legal issues.

  10. Safe Removal:

  • When you're ready to remove the butt plug, do it slowly and gently.
  • Wash the butt plug thoroughly with warm water and mild soap after each use.

Key Points:

  • Choose a body-safe, remote-controlled vibrating butt plug with a flared base.
  • Practice at home before using it in public.
  • Find a discreet location to maintain privacy.
  • Wear clothing that allows easy access to the remote control.
  • Use lubrication for comfortable insertion.
  • Start with lower vibration intensity and gradually increase.
  • Be aware of your surroundings and avoid risky situations.

Remember, discretion and safety are crucial when engaging in public play. Always prioritize your comfort and consent, and avoid engaging in any activities that may violate public decency or the law.

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