You asked:
I love using my strap-on with my partner, but I'm lacking any stimulation for my own clit. Is there a vibrator I can get that I can wear at the same time as the strap? It would need to be totally hands-free. I've been considering the Dame Eva II as an option?
Grace:
You'll definitely want something compact for strap-on play so it doesn’t get uncomfortable to put pressure on. The flat We-Vibe Moxie+ comes to mind—it's app- and remote-controllable, so you can adjust the settings or turn it off without needing to actually access it. Plus, it uses magnets to attach to your underwear (or the inside of the harness) for hands-free wear.
I'd also recommend checking out the Banana Pants Honeybunch. It’s designed specifically for clitoral stimulation during strap-on play, and all you need is a bullet vibrator to turn it into a full clit vibe. For a cheap but suitable option, there is the Femme Funn FFIX.
As for the Dame Eva II, I wouldn’t recommend it for this type of play. It’s tricky to position for hands-free play even during solo use, and its bulky design is pretty much the opposite of what you’d want here.