You asked:
I’m 23, female and still a virgin, but I want to start exploring my body before I have sex for the first time. I’m not sure where to begin. Any advice or toy recommendations for a total beginner?
Grace:
A bullet vibe is the perfect starting point. They're small and versatile, not super intense, and super budget-friendly. It'll give you a chance to see how your body responds and where you enjoy being stimulated, and that will inform any further purchases. Something like the Femme Funn FFIX is only $22, or if you can splurge a little, the Hot Octopuss AMO is $50 and seriously one of the best out there.
Once you’ve figured out what you like, you can level up to a wand vibe if you want more power, or try a suction toy if clit-focused stuff feels good but you want a new sensation. Insertables like dildos or G-spot vibes are great if you’re into fingering, but honestly, most orgasms are clitoral anyway—so no rush there. Just take your time and explore what feels right.